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I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:15 pm

Last night there was a thread created by myself that turned into a farce.

The intention of the thread was simply to say that a director was no longer appointed by the club and the paperwork was filed at Companies House on Monday.

Unfortunately I reacted to a reply in the thread and allowed my personal feelings to take over and became involved in a debate that would not have taken place had I not made an impulsive comment in reaction to another post.

The thread then turned into something else.

I have always tried to maintain a certain behaviour on the message board and have constantly advised friends not to react and not to become involved in mud slinging on here and maintain the moral ground but last night I should have heeded my own words.

I made a mistake last night and there was certainly an error of judgement on my part, which I hope will not happen again.

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:26 pm

WE all want the best for the Bluebirds

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:26 pm

In the air sometimes.....singing ayooooo....gotta let go... 8-)

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:27 pm

Malky Is My God wrote:In the air sometimes.....singing ayooooo....gotta let go... 8-)


Thought you were quitting this board?

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:29 pm

Malky Is My God wrote:In the air sometimes.....singing ayooooo....gotta let go... 8-)


That break didn't last long. :lol:

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:35 pm

When is your next update. :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah:

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:36 pm

Carl what you did is no more different than what anyone else has done from time to time.
Only not all would hold there hands up at the end of it. :ayatollah:

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:37 pm

S**t happens.
Time to move on. Well done for apologising for whatever you did wrong.

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:38 pm

Big news week: There was no big news so carl created his own :lol:



:thumbright:
I didn't see it, but i'm sure it'll be forgotten about soon enough.
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Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:39 pm

JamesC wrote:
Malky Is My God wrote:In the air sometimes.....singing ayooooo....gotta let go... 8-)


Thought you were quitting this board?



alot of retractions took place last night :lol:

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:39 pm

Done it myself Carl......well done for owning your part. :ayatollah:

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:40 pm

carlccfc wrote:Last night there was a thread created by myself that turned into a farce.

The intention of the thread was simply to say that a director was no longer appointed by the club and the paperwork was filed at Companies House on Monday.

Unfortunately I reacted to a reply in the thread and allowed my personal feelings to take over and became involved in a debate that would not have taken place had I not made an impulsive comment in reaction to another post.

The thread then turned into something else.

I have always tried to maintain a certain behaviour on the message board and have constantly advised friends not to react and not to become involved in mud slinging on here and maintain the moral ground but last night I should have heeded my own words.

I made a mistake last night and there was certainly an error of judgement on my part, which I hope will not happen again.


there's no shame in admitting you made a mistake and you were wrong,it takes a real man to apologize and you've finally manned up and done the right thing. Now you can put it behind you and move on,well done.

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:41 pm

Fair play to you Carl. Lets hope people can let it go and move on

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:43 pm

Good on u Carl, all u did was what many on here have said about many other people from the club, no different, your a fan just like us, a pity a few others including Borley were not not man enough, u called him nothing, the name calling came from his mate his side kick Steve davies, any way time to move on, me thinks.

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:43 pm

glas wrote:S**t happens.
Time to move on. Well done for apologising for whatever you did wrong.



there is no apology in the post.

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:43 pm

There is a lot of ppl on here to whom this board is everything. And a lot of those ppl need to seriously grow up and listen to themselves its pathetic at times.

Carl dont apologise, and keep up the updates

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:44 pm

I dont see an apology there . just hold up of hands!! and an acknowledgement of being wrong!

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:46 pm

You haven't said sorry yet! :lol:

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:46 pm

I don't think an apology is necessary.. All yesterday did was confirm that nobody here is ITK. They may have been under previous regimes, but not anymore. Any "update" these days is just guesswork & smartly-written texts.
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Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:47 pm

Daio85 wrote:There is a lot of ppl on here to whom this board is everything. And a lot of those ppl need to seriously grow up and listen to themselves its pathetic at times.

Carl dont apologise, and keep up the updates

Don't worry about those bastards Carl just keep giving us updates and bollox to them mate

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:47 pm

carlccfc wrote:Last night there was a thread created by myself that turned into a farce.

The intention of the thread was simply to say that a director was no longer appointed by the club and the paperwork was filed at Companies House on Monday.

Unfortunately I reacted to a reply in the thread and allowed my personal feelings to take over and became involved in a debate that would not have taken place had I not made an impulsive comment in reaction to another post.

The thread then turned into something else.

I have always tried to maintain a certain behaviour on the message board and have constantly advised friends not to react and not to become involved in mud slinging on here and maintain the moral ground but last night I should have heeded my own words.

I made a mistake last night and there was certainly an error of judgement on my part, which I hope will not happen again.


It was not only what your opening post stated it was the cover up later, absolute disgrace and part of an agenda that is hurting CCFC. Its now on record and I hope the club reacts accordingly without further delay. Much of what you have said both last night and in the past has damaged our club. Certainly no other club would put up with your comments and opinions and ours shouldn't. My view is to little to late time to bite the bullet. I wonder what Paul Guy's view is ?

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:48 pm

carl
We all have done this at some time however it takes a big man to apologise well done.

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:48 pm

Carl, it looks like Ive missed the fire works last night. What ever it was, it certainly got everyone talking,12,000 views :lol:
Uve always been one for no name calling, never rising to bait and never lowering yourself, We all make mistakes, Fair play to you for holding your hands up. :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah:

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:51 pm

carlccfc wrote:Last night there was a thread created by myself that turned into a farce.

The intention of the thread was simply to say that a director was no longer appointed by the club and the paperwork was filed at Companies House on Monday.

Unfortunately I reacted to a reply in the thread and allowed my personal feelings to take over and became involved in a debate that would not have taken place had I not made an impulsive comment in reaction to another post.

The thread then turned into something else.

I have always tried to maintain a certain behaviour on the message board and have constantly advised friends not to react and not to become involved in mud slinging on here and maintain the moral ground but last night I should have heeded my own words.

I made a mistake last night and there was certainly an error of judgement on my part, which I hope will not happen again.


Well we have to have equality across this land or mayhem will rein, seeing as you held your hands up in a manner inappropriately, you should get 5 uyear football ban and upto 18 months at HMP, precedent is set from Kings Road! :D

On the other hand you could just say feck you all, you had it coming and and why should I apologise none of you do :lol:

:old:

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:53 pm

One question I will ask is why was half the thread deleted last night when the full thread is available online elsewhere? In my view it happens far too much on here i.e stuff getting deleted, hijacked, threads renamed etc. Do yourself a favour Carl reinstate the whole thread and a public apology to Borley and Guy on here wouldn't go amiss either - just my opinion :ayatollah:

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:56 pm

ihatealiens wrote:One question I will ask is why was half the thread deleted last night when the full thread is available online elsewhere? In my view it happens far too much on here i.e stuff getting deleted, hijacked, threads renamed etc. Do yourself a favour Carl reinstate the whole thread and a public apology to Borley and Guy on here wouldn't go amiss either - just my opinion :ayatollah:


he's probably already said sorry to Steve and Paul.

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:56 pm

Fair play Carl :ayatollah:

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 3:59 pm

Mario Polotelli wrote:Fair play Carl :ayatollah:


Class

Avatar as well

priceless......

:lol:

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 4:02 pm

It's called passion Carl and we are all the same, that's what makes us the greatest fans in the world.
If I had a pound for every time I said something I shouldn't have, I wouldn't have to work any more! Onwards and upwards. :ayatollah:

Re: I HOLD MY HANDS UP

Wed Jul 03, 2013 4:17 pm

I don't see any apology, just an acknowledgement that you reacted to a post inappropriately.

It's a long way off apologising for making what appeared to be libelous comments.

Some if your statements were clearly inaccurate and defamatory, so you should apologise for the content, not just your poorly judged reaction.

You're still not big enough to admit your comments were wrong, or to apologise to Steve or Paul Guy directly, and I believe you have lost a hell of lot of respect as a result of all this.

At least the poorly disguised agenda on this forum has been exposed for what it is.

Why don't you try posting more of your personal thoughts about the team, tactics and club affairs in general rather than just posting third hand gossip? Do you actually have any opinions of your own?