Message from Daya - Give Gwyn A Break

I am posting the below on the behalf of Daya

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Firstly for all the wild guesses by many no I don't post on this board anymore or infact any Cardiff City board I know this will upset the likes of Taffy Apple but that's a fact, although I do read it once every other day in the evening to basically watch the arguing and red/blue debate as it's better than a soap opera !  That in my opinion is what the Malaysians have turned Cardiff City in to but quite honestly I don't give a flying f**k anymore .

The reason I have asked for someone to put up this post for me is regards the abuse being thrown at Gwyn -  no of course I don't agree with what he has supposed to have done but I do have understanding and it's understanding that some of you should take into consideration and thinking and give him some slack.  Is Gwyn my mate ?  ---- urgh don't think so either so hopefully you can have a bit of a reality check before you fire flack and abuse at him.

Gwyn has as we have all read just lost his Daughter ,  when this happens to a Father it takes over your mind and the way you react , you don't actually know your doing it but one of the traits many a man does to try and get over the grief and rather a bit of self denial is to throw yourself into some fully hearted quite often reacting way over the top , it's hard to explain in words on a message board and you will never understand what I'm saying fully unless and hopefully it never does you go through it yourself . It's a brain mechanical way of dealing with your grief of your loss of your own . You don't actually realise it yourself when your doing it and it's only years later you realise although the reality takes a few years to sink in  and those years until your act in some strange unnatural ways than you used to.  

Lads it's a fact - thankfully you wouldn't realise or identify with it but any of you out there who have suffered child loss will fully understand as Gwyn will go overboard from time to time ,  so how about understanding a little before throwing abuse at him because  he's hurting badly right now and trying to deal with something no father should really have to go through but when you do have to it's f*cking murder to deal with .   Unfortunately I've been there and bought the T - shirt and have reacted exactly the same as Gwyn is now and it takes a long while to even come to terms with it , let along go back to acting or being your normal self -  Gwyn don't mean it but internally in his soul he's just very angry right now and justifiably so although the majority thankfully don't need to understand what he's going through because you won't thankfully have to .

So how about all giving the big oaf a break hey and give a little understanding to why he's acting the way he is !

Nobody cares what you think, Daya. Do one.

Nobody cares what you think, Daya. Do one.

Nobodies asking you to care what I think but maybe you should think and broaden your thick mind.

Nice touch Daya because it is obvious that you and Gwyn don't get on that well. TBH I am amazed how Gwyn has the energy to even bother with CCFC at the moment considering he has just lost his daughter.

I have to admit he is a stronger man than I am because I couldn't do the same if I was in his shoes.

Nobody cares what you think, Daya. Do one.

Nobodies asking you to care what I think but maybe you should think and broaden your thick mind.

Is that another direct quote? You know, you should really make use of "", when you do that!

I am posting the below on the behalf of Daya

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Firstly for all the wild guesses by many no I don't post on this board anymore or infact any Cardiff City board I know this will upset the likes of Taffy Apple but that's a fact, although I do read it once every other day in the evening to basically watch the arguing and red/blue debate as it's better than a soap opera !  That in my opinion is what the Malaysians have turned Cardiff City in to but quite honestly I don't give a flying f**k anymore .

The reason I have asked for someone to put up this post for me is regards the abuse being thrown at Gwyn -  no of course I don't agree with what he has supposed to have done but I do have understanding and it's understanding that some of you should take into consideration and thinking and give him some slack.  Is Gwyn my mate ?  ---- urgh don't think so either so hopefully you can have a bit of a reality check before you fire flack and abuse at him.

Gwyn has as we have all read just lost his Daughter ,  when this happens to a Father it takes over your mind and the way you react , you don't actually know your doing it but one of the traits many a man does to try and get over the grief and rather a bit of self denial is to throw yourself into some fully hearted quite often reacting way over the top , it's hard to explain in words on a message board and you will never understand what I'm saying fully unless and hopefully it never does you go through it yourself . It's a brain mechanical way of dealing with your grief of your loss of your own . You don't actually realise it yourself when your doing it and it's only years later you realise although the reality takes a few years to sink in  and those years until your act in some strange unnatural ways than you used to.  

Lads it's a fact - thankfully you wouldn't realise or identify with it but any of you out there who have suffered child loss will fully understand as Gwyn will go overboard from time to time ,  so how about understanding a little before throwing abuse at him because  he's hurting badly right now and trying to deal with something no father should really have to go through but when you do have to it's f*cking murder to deal with .   Unfortunately I've been there and bought the T - shirt and have reacted exactly the same as Gwyn is now and it takes a long while to even come to terms with it , let along go back to acting or being your normal self -  Gwyn don't mean it but internally in his soul he's just very angry right now and justifiably so although the majority thankfully don't need to understand what he's going through because you won't thankfully have to .

So how about all giving the big oaf a break hey and give a little understanding to why he's acting the way he is !

Or lets just kick him in the face and jump up and down on his balls, Steve its a bit low to be bringing in the death of Becky.
Gwyn has family and friends that surround him in his time of need, this forum is not the place to try to embrace pity on the man. He dont need it and is big and wise enough to deal with people, he has his view, we have ours. It may have got out of hand at the KCB meeting but that is in the past and we cant change that but we can change the future and the future is blue, even Gwyn would want that.

Well said Daya

Cant imagine the pain

I know gywn has skin thicker than a rhino and all of whats said on here is like water off a ducks back to him, although what has happened to him i wouldnt wish on anyman.

Nobody cares what you think, Daya. Do one.

You are Sick

Posting via someone else is still posting lmao

Nobody cares what you think, Daya. Do one.

Nobodies asking you to care what I think but maybe you should think and broaden your thick mind.

Shouldn't that be "what HE thinks"???

............and now everyones arguing about whether people should be arguing...............

you really couldn't make this board up.

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