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divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 4:24 pm

Need to find a shit hot divorce lawyer as I'm being lined up for a big hit by the so-called-wife.

Grateful for any help, but they will need to be the bollocks without costing a fortune.

Cheers lads

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 4:25 pm

Gavennyblue wrote:Need to find a shit hot divorce lawyer as I'm being lined up for a big hit by the so-called-wife.

Grateful for any help, but they will need to be the bollocks without costing a fortune.

Cheers lads


They say Wendy Hopkins, but she is mega money, but the best in South Wales.

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 4:34 pm

Cheers Annis

What company is she with?

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 4:38 pm

I had Melanie Lazarus in Bridgend mate fair play she was the business, she got her own website so check it out :ayatollah:

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 6:11 pm

Lay a new patio its cheaper :D

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 6:14 pm

Gavennyblue wrote:Need to find a shit hot divorce lawyer as I'm being lined up for a big hit by the so-called-wife.

Grateful for any help, but they will need to be the bollocks without costing a fortune.

Cheers lads

Gavenny, what you been up to now mate :lol: Doveryblues :ayatollah: :ayatollah:

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 6:30 pm

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Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 7:41 pm

make sure you get a woman solicitor,they are the best,they know what your ex is thinking etc.mine was good in port talbot.

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 7:57 pm

Mogs wrote:make sure you get a woman solicitor,they are the best,they know what your ex is thinking etc.mine was good in port talbot.


Very good point ;)

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 8:00 pm

Hate family lawyers with a passion.....biggest gold diggers going.

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 9:39 pm

Cheers lads, considering all options. All are valid and none have been discounted yet.

Dovery, you cheeky fucker! I'm an angel and you know it boi hahahahha. Hows tricks down with you? Bet theres plenty of those pikey bastards come out the woodwork recently down your way. Being a posty should be easy to deliver the cunts a little surprise tho ;)

If you're not up to it let me know. Was alleged to have done a bit of MG service back in the day according to the her majesties finest at the time. Nothing was ever proved though ;)

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 9:42 pm

PM big gwyn, i think he`s used one once or twice :lol: :lol:

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 9:52 pm

Of course, so fuckin obvious now you mention it!!!!!!!!!! Gwyn, you have mail hahahaha

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 9:58 pm

Gavennyblue wrote:Cheers Annis

What company is she with?


Give it a google. :ayatollah:

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 10:13 pm

Nice one. Got a contact for mates rates???????///// :ayatollah:

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Feb 08, 2012 10:18 pm

Forever Blue wrote:
Gavennyblue wrote:Need to find a shit hot divorce lawyer as I'm being lined up for a big hit by the so-called-wife.

Grateful for any help, but they will need to be the bollocks without costing a fortune.

Cheers lads


They say Wendy Hopkins, but she is mega money, but the best in South Wales.


http://www.wendyhopkins.co.uk/

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Thu Feb 09, 2012 11:28 am

That's her old firm I believe.

Hopkins Law is her current one.

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Wed Mar 21, 2012 10:51 am

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Wed Mar 21, 2012 12:01 pm

I'M using Wendy at the moment,she frightens the crap out of me and shes on my side. Had my ex's solicitors in tears the other day. Yes shes's a little expensive but long term will save you a fortune.

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Mar 21, 2012 12:07 pm

Hodgson and Parsons in Newport.

My ex-wife wanted half my shit but got nothing in the end. Basically I just strung her out for the maximum 5 years. She can't touch a penny whilst you are still married, so don't divorce her. After 5 years you are divorced anyway but by which time she would have built up her own assets by then. Those new assets are basically yours as well. So it's a case of splitting everything down the middle at the point of being divorced NOT at the point of splitting up. So for instance whilst you are still married but seperated, if she wins the lottery you get half of it. If you run up debts then that is off-set against your assets. 5 years is a long time and your status could change a lot. So could hers.

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Mar 21, 2012 2:29 pm

Bakedalasker wrote:Hate family lawyers with a passion.....biggest gold diggers going.


Hate lawyers in general. Saying that will come back to haunt me. :lol:

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Wed Mar 21, 2012 2:56 pm

Im a qualified solicitor but dont work in law anymore. All depends how much you want to spend its much of a muchness to be honest.

Pm me and ill give you a breakdown of the financial divided etc if you like on the house. All depends on length of marriage kids etc

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Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Mon May 28, 2012 1:28 pm

luls

how did this go?

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Mon May 28, 2012 1:59 pm

on a friend's recommendation I used one of the firms mentioned a few times on here - cost me a five figure sum and I hadn't even got to court, in a very straightforward case just arguing about division of a house and pension :o

I decided to change when one month's bill came to nearly £2,000, with no court appearances or anything meaty like that :shock:

I changed to a Valleys solicitor who charged me a helluva alot less than that firm did, got me a decent settlement under the circumstances and represented me well in 2 court appearances, including having a decent barrister as well.

I can't speak highly enough of the professional support I received.

Julia Richards at Richards Thomas, works out of Ferndale and now Mountain Ash. Her junior is Gemma Collins, both are excellent. They specialise in Family Law amongst other areas.

As for tears, Julia will guarantee them! 8-)

PM me if you want more details offline - never know who reads what, do you!

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Mon May 28, 2012 6:00 pm

Yes I have been there on many occasions and it has cost me a fortune, but in most case the ones who make the real money are the lawyers, my third divorce cost seventeen thousand pounds in legal fees alone, my ex at that time was just out to cut her nose off to spite her face and it cost her a big chunk as well, she would spend a hundred pound arguing over something that cost twenty pound, every letter your lawyer reads, writes or send cost you a fortune, they write to you they charge, you write to them they charge you for reading yours then they charge you for writing to her solicitor and it goes on and on.

Mediation is the way forward if you both want to move on and save money, but when things are raw, then spite and payback rule sadly.

Either way mate, it ain't about being fare, you will have to look at getting used to it costing you either way and accept it, the less you give the solicitors, the more you both have to share out.

And when it is over, don't look back in anger or it will eat you away, keep moving forward and don't think about how much you've wasted or it will do you in.

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Mon May 28, 2012 6:21 pm

BlueChet wrote:Image

:lol: problem solved

Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Tue May 29, 2012 9:37 am

BigGwynram wrote:Yes I have been there on many occasions and it has cost me a fortune, but in most case the ones who make the real money are the lawyers, my third divorce cost seventeen thousand pounds in legal fees alone, my ex at that time was just out to cut her nose off to spite her face and it cost her a big chunk as well, she would spend a hundred pound arguing over something that cost twenty pound, every letter your lawyer reads, writes or send cost you a fortune, they write to you they charge, you write to them they charge you for reading yours then they charge you for writing to her solicitor and it goes on and on.

Mediation is the way forward if you both want to move on and save money, but when things are raw, then spite and payback rule sadly.

Either way mate, it ain't about being fare, you will have to look at getting used to it costing you either way and accept it, the less you give the solicitors, the more you both have to share out.

And when it is over, don't look back in anger or it will eat you away, keep moving forward and don't think about how much you've wasted or it will do you in.


Yes Gwyn, I honestly think that these lawyers are happy to see you going hammer and tong at each other because the more you argue the more they get. I'm willing to bet that if a couple had no house or any other assets their divorce would be over really quickly and cheaply simply because the lawyer wouldn't have a honey pot to drink from.

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Re: divorce lawyer HELP

Thu Jun 07, 2012 6:26 am

I did my divorce myself, that saved me load's, filed for divorce. I went to the solicitor to get some legal advice as we were only married for 5 years, only her kids from previous. I was better walking away she advised. I had my own house that I rented out and lived in the marital home (her own house from past).
I would see a solicitor for advice and weight much you think you will come away with.
If you have Kids they will come 1st. If you goto court don't argue with judge as you will lose the percentage they offered.
My mate used a solicitor he lost more than he gain, most of the money when to solicitor fee's and he came away with nothing. Once you start using a solicitor it will get costly.

Good Luck