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GAYS

Sat Dec 17, 2011 7:41 pm

Got no issue with gays but those gays that hide it, deny it, and have families THEN declare they are gay?

HOME WRECKING SCUMBAGS

Re: GAYS

Sat Dec 17, 2011 7:53 pm

Oh come on sweetie put your handbag down and calm down :lol: :lol: :lol:

Re: GAYS

Sat Dec 17, 2011 8:10 pm

polo wrote:Got no issue with gays but those gays that hide it, deny it, and have families THEN declare they are gay?

HOME WRECKING SCUMBAGS


In a way I see where you're coming from. It can (does) have a detrimental effect on their families.

However, do you really think that they would choose to do that to their families? Most (if not all) must be confused, scared, and must have all sorts of thoughts going through their heads. Many probably try to fight the way they feel until they just can't anymore, it's hard to deny who you are.

The way many homosexuals are treated by society (a lot better now than in days gone by, admittidely) must not help either. If being gay wasn't so 'tabboo' - at least some sections of society - then maybe these people wouldn't have to fight how they feel so much, imo.

Re: GAYS

Sat Dec 17, 2011 8:16 pm

hooligan858 wrote:
polo wrote:Got no issue with gays but those gays that hide it, deny it, and have families THEN declare they are gay?

HOME WRECKING SCUMBAGS


In a way I see where you're coming from. It can (does) have a detrimental effect on their families.

However, do you really think that they would choose to do that to their families? Most (if not all) must be confused, scared, and must have all sorts of thoughts going through their heads. Many probably try to fight the way they feel until they just can't anymore, it's hard to deny who you are.

The way many homosexuals are treated by society (a lot better now than in days gone by, admittidely) must not help either. If being gay wasn't so 'tabboo' - at least some sections of society - then maybe these people wouldn't have to fight how they feel so much, imo.


Tough shit. Dont make them out to be the victims.

Pc bullshit.

Its about time this country stuck two winston churchill fingers, the other way around, to all this pc bollocks.

Re: GAYS

Sat Dec 17, 2011 8:32 pm

splottbluebird48 wrote:Oh come on sweetie put your handbag down and calm down :lol: :lol: :lol:


lol!! :lol: :lol:

Re: GAYS

Sat Dec 17, 2011 8:34 pm

Is it different to cheating and leavin for someone of the opposite sex?
All amounts to the same thing in the end

Re: GAYS

Sat Dec 17, 2011 8:39 pm

hooligan858 wrote:
polo wrote:Got no issue with gays but those gays that hide it, deny it, and have families THEN declare they are gay?

HOME WRECKING SCUMBAGS


In a way I see where you're coming from. It can (does) have a detrimental effect on their families.

However, do you really think that they would choose to do that to their families? Most (if not all) must be confused, scared, and must have all sorts of thoughts going through their heads. Many probably try to fight the way they feel until they just can't anymore, it's hard to deny who you are.

The way many homosexuals are treated by society (a lot better now than in days gone by, admittidely) must not help either. If being gay wasn't so 'tabboo' - at least some sections of society - then maybe these people wouldn't have to fight how they feel so much, imo.


I don't like any kind of bullying and just picking on someone because they are Gay is wrong and in the past I have both said so and intervened when I have seen bullying of an individual because they are Homosexual.

However, there are many Gays who bring trouble on themselves and others by there actions. It doesn't matter how much the PC brigade want us all to think otherwise, if you are a Hetrosexual male you will find the thought of sexual relations with another male absolutely replusive.

What Gays do in the privacy of their own homes is their business, but whilst in any public place they should learn to respect the feelings of others and not flaunt their own sexual preferences openly by talking about what they do or acting up the Gay thing in order to repluse those they know are not Homosexual.

One of the most disgusting is meeting up for casual sex in public places, like town centre toilets or parklands. Why they never get prosecuted is beyond me but it is obviously to do with them playing the victim card.

I agree they shoud be able to live their lives without fear of being 'outed' but they must understand that with tolerance comes responsiblity and Gay men need to learn that before they become fully accepted in society.

Re: GAYS

Sat Dec 17, 2011 8:58 pm

Tony Blue Williams wrote:
hooligan858 wrote:
polo wrote:Got no issue with gays but those gays that hide it, deny it, and have families THEN declare they are gay?

HOME WRECKING SCUMBAGS


In a way I see where you're coming from. It can (does) have a detrimental effect on their families.

However, do you really think that they would choose to do that to their families? Most (if not all) must be confused, scared, and must have all sorts of thoughts going through their heads. Many probably try to fight the way they feel until they just can't anymore, it's hard to deny who you are.

The way many homosexuals are treated by society (a lot better now than in days gone by, admittidely) must not help either. If being gay wasn't so 'tabboo' - at least some sections of society - then maybe these people wouldn't have to fight how they feel so much, imo.


I don't like any kind of bullying and just picking on someone because they are Gay is wrong and in the past I have both said so and intervened when I have seen bullying of an individual because they are Homosexual.

However, there are many Gays who bring trouble on themselves and others by there actions. It doesn't matter how much the PC brigade want us all to think otherwise, if you are a Hetrosexual male you will find the thought of sexual relations with another male absolutely replusive.

What Gays do in the privacy of their own homes is their business, but whilst in any public place they should learn to respect the feelings of others and not flaunt their own sexual preferences openly by talking about what they do or acting up the Gay thing in order to repluse those they know are not Homosexual.

One of the most disgusting is meeting up for casual sex in public places, like town centre toilets or parklands. Why they never get prosecuted is beyond me but it is obviously to do with them playing the victim card.

I agree they shoud be able to live their lives without fear of being 'outed' but they must understand that with tolerance comes responsiblity and Gay men need to learn that before they become fully accepted in society.



Firstly, it's good to hear that there are decent people like you out there who would never tolerate bullying on ANY basis, including sexuality.


Whilst I agree that there are gay men and women who do engage in this kind of behaviour, and that they should be prosecuted to the same extent as any other individual, I fail to understand the argument that this is limited to the gay community. There are many hetrolsexual people - male and female - who engage in this kind of activity. As there are many hetrosexuals - again, both male and female - who speak loudly of their sexual conquests/fantasies.

I'm personally hard to offend, so when I hear this 'banter', as it were, it brushes off of me and doesn't bother me (unless there are children within hearing range, in which case I would kick off as much as the next guy). On the flipped side, however, you could argue that there are many people out there who would be offended by hetrosexuals displaying their affections in public. Devout religious people, perhaps, or even homosexuals who are 'disgusted' by their behaviour. In a truely liberal (in the true sence of the word) society, just because gays are the minority, they shouldn't have to hide what to them are natural feelings from the majority, in the same way that the majority shouldn't have to hide their true feelings.

Unfortunately, liberalism is just an ideology and, like every other ideology, doesn't work in practice.

I'll leave it there because i've lost my trail of thought.

Re: GAYS

Sat Dec 17, 2011 9:06 pm

Tony Blue Williams wrote:
hooligan858 wrote:
polo wrote:Got no issue with gays but those gays that hide it, deny it, and have families THEN declare they are gay?

HOME WRECKING SCUMBAGS


In a way I see where you're coming from. It can (does) have a detrimental effect on their families.

However, do you really think that they would choose to do that to their families? Most (if not all) must be confused, scared, and must have all sorts of thoughts going through their heads. Many probably try to fight the way they feel until they just can't anymore, it's hard to deny who you are.

The way many homosexuals are treated by society (a lot better now than in days gone by, admittidely) must not help either. If being gay wasn't so 'tabboo' - at least some sections of society - then maybe these people wouldn't have to fight how they feel so much, imo.


I don't like any kind of bullying and just picking on someone because they are Gay is wrong and in the past I have both said so and intervened when I have seen bullying of an individual because they are Homosexual.

However, there are many Gays who bring trouble on themselves and others by there actions. It doesn't matter how much the PC brigade want us all to think otherwise, if you are a Hetrosexual male you will find the thought of sexual relations with another male absolutely replusive.

What Gays do in the privacy of their own homes is their business, but whilst in any public place they should learn to respect the feelings of others and not flaunt their own sexual preferences openly by talking about what they do or acting up the Gay thing in order to repluse those they know are not Homosexual.

One of the most disgusting is meeting up for casual sex in public places, like town centre toilets or parklands. Why they never get prosecuted is beyond me but it is obviously to do with them playing the victim card.

I agree they shoud be able to live their lives without fear of being 'outed' but they must understand that with tolerance comes responsiblity and Gay men need to learn that before they become fully accepted in society.


Absolutely.

I don't accept homosexuality as natural BUT I don't hold it against anyone who is attracted to their same sex. However like other sects I find some of the actions unacceptable. Like an extreme muslim preaching their hatred I put on a same level as a homomsexual walking around as if he is chewing a toffee up his arse, totally repulsive and I'm uncomfortable about it.

It is about time the victim card is put away in the deck.

Re: GAYS

Sat Dec 17, 2011 9:06 pm

what a gay thread :lol:

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 10:41 am

Who f*cking cares???

If your gay your gay.

Same as being ginger, muslim, black, white, Irish, Welsh... someone will have a laugh
at your expense.

What-fucking-ever!!!

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

I get called platypus nose sometimes cos i had it broken three
times boxing. I dont like it. I'm self-conscious about it sometimes.
But your mates are the very f*cking people who hit you the hardest
with piss taking (bastards :lol: :lol: :lol: )

Being British means growing up in a piss-taking society. f**k you
cry-baby liberal wankers. If you cant take it.. f**k off

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 11:20 am

taffyapple wrote:Who f*cking cares???

If your gay your gay.

Same as being ginger, muslim, black, white, Irish, Welsh... someone will have a laugh
at your expense.

What-fucking-ever!!!

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

I get called platypus nose sometimes cos i had it broken three
times boxing. I dont like it. I'm self-conscious about it sometimes.
But your mates are the very f*cking people who hit you the hardest
with piss taking (bastards :lol: :lol: :lol: )

Being British means growing up in a piss-taking society. f**k you
cry-baby liberal wankers. If you cant take it.. f**k off



100% agree , for fk sake just get on with your own lives and leave them alone, or are you mad at them cos they wouldnt look at you twice ? its not like they are conservatives or Thatcherites or something vile like that ,so leave them alone.

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 11:46 am

taffyapple wrote:Who f*cking cares???

If your gay your gay.

Same as being ginger, muslim, black, white, Irish, Welsh... someone will have a laugh
at your expense.

What-fucking-ever!!!

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

I get called platypus nose sometimes cos i had it broken three
times boxing. I dont like it. I'm self-conscious about it sometimes.
But your mates are the very f*cking people who hit you the hardest
with piss taking (bastards :lol: :lol: :lol: )

Being British means growing up in a piss-taking society. f**k you
cry-baby liberal wankers. If you cant take it.. f**k off





Well said 'Taffy' and totally agree!! :ayatollah:

Doesn't matter what your looks/personality/sexual preferences are SOMEONE will ALWAYS find SOMETHING to take the piss out you!! ;)

As 'Polo' is finding out rapidly; sometimes it is better to have people taking the piss than have them ignore you COMPLETELY!! :lol:

Polo being more than a little homophobic here. Perhaps he has an underlying 'personal issue' he is trying to supress?!?! :oops:
Last edited by Sven on Sun Dec 18, 2011 11:46 am, edited 1 time in total.

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 11:46 am

Look at me. i used to box :roll:

Boo f*cking hoo

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 11:52 am

polo wrote:Look at me. i used to box :roll:

Boo f*cking hoo




Another considered, constructive and adult reply from 'Polo' here with the usual sprinkling of profanity (always the sign of an intelligent man....NOT!! :oops: )


:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 11:54 am

Sven Ghali wrote:
polo wrote:Look at me. i used to box :roll:

Boo f*cking hoo




Another considered, constructive and adult reply from 'Polo' here with the usual sprinkling of profanity (always the sign of an intelligent man....NOT!! :roll: )


:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:


Yawn

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 11:55 am

polo wrote:
Sven Ghali wrote:
polo wrote:Look at me. i used to box :roll:

Boo f*cking hoo




Another considered, constructive and adult reply from 'Polo' here with the usual sprinkling of profanity (always the sign of an intelligent man....NOT!! :roll: )


:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:


Yawn




I rest my case....!! :lol: :lol:

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 12:00 pm

Midfield general wrote:
Sven Ghali wrote:
polo wrote:Look at me. i used to box :roll:

Boo f*cking hoo




Another considered, constructive and adult reply from 'Polo' here with the usual sprinkling of profanity (always the sign of an intelligent man....NOT!! :oops: )


:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:


Believe it or not the intelligence level of Polo is far higher than many on this forum, mine included. ;)




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Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 12:22 pm

hooligan858 wrote:

Firstly, it's good to hear that there are decent people like you out there who would never tolerate bullying on ANY basis, including sexuality.


Whilst I agree that there are gay men and women who do engage in this kind of behaviour, and that they should be prosecuted to the same extent as any other individual, I fail to understand the argument that this is limited to the gay community. There are many hetrolsexual people - male and female - who engage in this kind of activity. As there are many hetrosexuals - again, both male and female - who speak loudly of their sexual conquests/fantasies.

I'm personally hard to offend, so when I hear this 'banter', as it were, it brushes off of me and doesn't bother me (unless there are children within hearing range, in which case I would kick off as much as the next guy). On the flipped side, however, you could argue that there are many people out there who would be offended by hetrosexuals displaying their affections in public. Devout religious people, perhaps, or even homosexuals who are 'disgusted' by their behaviour. In a truely liberal (in the true sence of the word) society, just because gays are the minority, they shouldn't have to hide what to them are natural feelings from the majority, in the same way that the majority shouldn't have to hide their true feelings.

Unfortunately, liberalism is just an ideology and, like every other ideology, doesn't work in practice.

I'll leave it there because i've lost my trail of thought.


Actually I think you will find that soliciting for sexual favours by female prostitutes towards males in public places is illegal and they will face prosecution if caught, so the flip argument has to be why shouldn't Gay men who approach strangers for casual sex in public places not also face prosecution?

I take your argument about devout religious people who may get offended by heterosexual couples kissing passionately in public places but they are a very small minority.

However, I would estimate that 98% of heterosexual men would find two gay blokes shoving their tongues down each other’s throat in Queen Street in the middle of the afternoon extremely repulsive, but a high proportion would turn a blind eye if they were simply holding hands.

That’s the point I’m making, if Gays want to become an unquestioned part of society they also need to show respect and restraint. Education is a 2 way street and Gay’s have their part to play.

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 12:33 pm

taffyapple wrote:Who f*cking cares???

If your gay your gay.

Same as being ginger, muslim, black, white, Irish, Welsh... someone will have a laugh
at your expense.

What-fucking-ever!!!

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

I get called platypus nose sometimes cos i had it broken three
times boxing. I dont like it. I'm self-conscious about it sometimes.
But your mates are the very f*cking people who hit you the hardest
with piss taking (bastards :lol: :lol: :lol: )

Being British means growing up in a piss-taking society. f**k you
cry-baby liberal wankers. If you cant take it.. f**k off


Actually I sought of agree with a lot of that, but surely the problem is where to draw the line? What if your job prospects were hindered because no-one liked your nose?

You might laugh but being serious if you became unemployable or lost out on extra income because everyone took the piss out of your nose then it becomes something else altogether and would probably cause you distress.

I'm all for banter with people who are Ginger, Muslim, Black, White, Irish and Welsh but the joke can go too far and that's what we all need to keep that in mind.

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 1:35 pm

Tony Blue Williams wrote:
taffyapple wrote:Who f*cking cares???

If your gay your gay.

Same as being ginger, muslim, black, white, Irish, Welsh... someone will have a laugh
at your expense.

What-fucking-ever!!!

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

I get called platypus nose sometimes cos i had it broken three
times boxing. I dont like it. I'm self-conscious about it sometimes.
But your mates are the very f*cking people who hit you the hardest
with piss taking (bastards :lol: :lol: :lol: )

Being British means growing up in a piss-taking society. f**k you
cry-baby liberal wankers. If you cant take it.. f**k off


Actually I sought of agree with a lot of that, but surely the problem is where to draw the line? What if your job prospects were hindered because no-one liked your nose?

You might laugh but being serious if you became unemployable or lost out on extra income because everyone took the piss out of your nose then it becomes something else altogether and would probably cause you distress.

I'm all for banter with people who are Ginger, Muslim, Black, White, Irish and Welsh but the joke can go too far and that's what we all need to keep that in mind.


Piss taking is piss taking is what i mean. You can take ANYTHING too far. Its in
ourselves to know where to draw the line. Some are too ignorant to realise that,
most of us are ok.

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 1:37 pm

polo wrote:Look at me. i used to box :roll:

Boo f*cking hoo


Actually it was twice boxing, once was an accident at work. I was just
using it to make an example. I apologise to anyone for trying to sound
like a tough guy.

Now whats the chances of you apologising for being an oxygen thief

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 2:25 pm

My ex's Uncle was Gay.

Had been married for 23 years and had 3 kids.

He fucked off when the kids all reached 18 and came out with it.

I dont have a problem with Gay people at all but I do/did feel sorry for his wife
and the kids.

Not only was he living his own life as a lie but he also, whether you like it or not, ruined the lives of his wife of 23 years and his kids.

Ruined might seem a bit stong but how do you think his Mrs felt, 'Alright love, never mind the fact I married you 23 years ago and you thought we would be together forever with our 3 kids but I actualy fancy men'.

It also turned out that he had been with other men during the marriage.

The youngest son was totaly messed up by it, split the family right down the middle, my ex wouldnt speak to him and neither would his 2 sons, his own brother and sister disowned him and his parents didnt speak to him for ages.

Obviously Im not with my ex anymore but from what I understand, over time things have healed a bit but I dont think his sons or his brother and sister speak to him.

All very sad and I dont know the answers.

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 2:26 pm

taffyapple wrote:
polo wrote:Look at me. i used to box :roll:

Boo f*cking hoo


Actually it was twice boxing, once was an accident at work. I was just
using it to make an example. I apologise to anyone for trying to sound
like a tough guy.

Now whats the chances of you apologising for being an oxygen thief


The example has nowt to do with the topic in hand

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 2:38 pm

MillarFromTheHalfWayLine wrote:My ex's Uncle was Gay.

Had been married for 23 years and had 3 kids.

He fucked off when the kids all reached 18 and came out with it.

I dont have a problem with Gay people at all but I do/did feel sorry for his wife
and the kids.

Not only was he living his own life as a lie but he also, whether you like it or not, ruined the lives of his wife of 23 years and his kids.

Ruined might seem a bit stong but how do you think his Mrs felt, 'Alright love, never mind the fact I married you 23 years ago and you thought we would be together forever with our 3 kids but I actualy fancy men'.

It also turned out that he had been with other men during the marriage.

The youngest son was totaly messed up by it, split the family right down the middle, my ex wouldnt speak to him and neither would his 2 sons, his own brother and sister disowned him and his parents didnt speak to him for ages.

Obviously Im not with my ex anymore but from what I understand, over time things have healed a bit but I dont think his sons or his brother and sister speak to him.

All very sad and I dont know the answers.


An example of what I meant by this thread, before plastic apple turned it into one about having a big snozz :?

Ruins lives with their selfishness. Closet homos that is. Not this with a Tony Adams nose.

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 4:18 pm

polo wrote:
MillarFromTheHalfWayLine wrote:My ex's Uncle was Gay.

Had been married for 23 years and had 3 kids.

He fucked off when the kids all reached 18 and came out with it.

I dont have a problem with Gay people at all but I do/did feel sorry for his wife
and the kids.

Not only was he living his own life as a lie but he also, whether you like it or not, ruined the lives of his wife of 23 years and his kids.

Ruined might seem a bit stong but how do you think his Mrs felt, 'Alright love, never mind the fact I married you 23 years ago and you thought we would be together forever with our 3 kids but I actualy fancy men'.

It also turned out that he had been with other men during the marriage.

The youngest son was totaly messed up by it, split the family right down the middle, my ex wouldnt speak to him and neither would his 2 sons, his own brother and sister disowned him and his parents didnt speak to him for ages.

Obviously Im not with my ex anymore but from what I understand, over time things have healed a bit but I dont think his sons or his brother and sister speak to him.

All very sad and I dont know the answers.


An example of what I meant by this thread, before plastic apple turned it into one about having a big snozz :?

Ruins lives with their selfishness. Closet homos that is. Not this with a Tony Adams nose.


You must have taken some stick yourself over the years, what with you being
such a cock

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 4:36 pm

Ive taken plenty of abuse cock nose.

Unlike you i can take it back.

Dish it out, take it back.

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 4:44 pm

polo wrote:Ive taken plenty of abuse cock nose.

Unlike you i can take it back.

Dish it out, take it back.


what a prick! :lol:

Re: GAYS

Sun Dec 18, 2011 8:54 pm

taffyapple wrote:
polo wrote:Ive taken plenty of abuse cock nose.

Unlike you i can take it back.

Dish it out, take it back.


what a prick! :lol:





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:ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah:

Re: GAYS

Mon Dec 19, 2011 12:51 pm

Sven Ghali wrote:
:ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah:
:ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah: :ayatollah:


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