Love Help Needed

I know this is not a Agony Aunt Forum, but a bluebird needs help ,

Here Goes my story!

Im 22 got 2 kids by 2 mums, pay for my kids still see them bother every week ,

In march i meet a girl, she got 2 kids by a different partner , we got on amazing stright away,

rushed things a bit tho, moved in after two months, She was amazing at the start always thought about me , showed me she loved me etc etc, then she got pregnant, we talked about it and decided the keep it, then a month after she changed towards me , and then we had arguments all the time , then been on and off every since like, me moving back into my mums then moving back into hers then back to my mums etc, i go into moods sometimes but its always me sorting us out, then 2 days ago she said its over for good, n i am trying but she unsure about us now!

I aint sure if its just her horn mos playing a part of it, or if she just doesn't feel the same any more,!

I do love her and think the world of her, but im thinking this may be the end even tho i dont want it to be!

Sorry for boring you all!

Just needed to get it off my chest and hear what other people think , and if anyone got advice or been in the same suit ion ?

Thanks in advance!!

GWYN!!!!! GWYN!!!! Where are you? We've got someone here needs relationship advice. GWYN!!!!

get the snip seriously

Doctor told me im to young , even tho i tryed talking to him seriously and explained everythink!
But i will not be having any more now!!

[quote="Berwyn"]GWYN!!!!! GWYN!!!! Where are you? We've got someone here needs relationship advice. GWYN!!!![/quote

thats pregnant women for you!!! right cunts they are!!

feel for u mate they can be cruel as f**k. my mrs is from wrexham and we had a 1 year old when she left (due to me). luckily for me we sorted things out and now she been living in cardiff for years with me. anyone who knows me will tell u im the nicest guy and id never do anything to hurt anyone but they don't know how much they hurt u at times. aal i can say is keep your head up mate and get on with ur life as your still young. sorry not much help but good luck.

KEEP KALM AND CARRY ON

Oh and by the way, buy a party pack of condoms. they prevent alot of trouble

I know this is not a Agony Aunt Forum, but a bluebird needs help ,

Here Goes my story!

Im 22 got 2 kids by 2 mums, pay for my kids still see them bother every week ,

In march i meet a girl, she got 2 kids by a different partner , we got on amazing stright away,

rushed things a bit tho, moved in after two months, She was amazing at the start always thought about me , showed me she loved me etc etc, then she got pregnant, we talked about it and decided the keep it, then a month after she changed towards me , and then we had arguments all the time , then been on and off every since like, me moving back into my mums then moving back into hers then back to my mums etc, i go into moods sometimes but its always me sorting us out, then 2 days ago she said its over for good, n i am trying but she unsure about us now!

I aint sure if its just her horn mos playing a part of it, or if she just doesn't feel the same any more,!

I do love her and think the world of her, but im thinking this may be the end even tho i dont want it to be!

Sorry for boring you all!

Just needed to get it off my chest and hear what other people think , and if anyone got advice or been in the same suit ion ?

Thanks in advance!!

sorry mate,but this is for you and her to sort out not us ,good luck and hope your decision is the right one for you

I know it's my problem , and i thank you all for your words, i just wanted
To know if any ones had the same problems with a pregnant mrs! If they where proper loving at the start , then changes towards you , n its allways your fault etc and you beein the one to sort it out and almost beg !! Ha


And i had all the jokes about condoms etc , but I support all
My kids , spend anytime
I can with them and give
Them everything I can!! Now I'm a father i wouldn't change my life for the world !!!

I know it's my problem , and i thank you all for your words, i just wanted
To know if any ones had the same problems with a pregnant mrs! If they where proper loving at the start , then changes towards you , n its allways your fault etc and you beein the one to sort it out and almost beg !! Ha


And i had all the jokes about condoms etc , but I support all
My kids , spend anytime
I can with them and give
Them everything I can!! Now I'm a father i wouldn't change my life for the world !!!

sorry,i wasnt being off,what i meen is people say things without any thought,and you must do what you think good,

Krab, I know what your saying man , I didn't mean to sound like i was beein a prick in my reply like! But thanks for the words!!

First of all. Buy some condoms. Second of all, is this the girls first pregnancy? If so, put yourself in her shoes. Childbirth is a scary thing for us gals. And even if you are a good dad, there will always be a doubt in her mind that you'll do a runner. You can tell her a hundred times you'll be around. But unfortunately there are guys out there who say they are going to be around and arnt. I'm not excusing her behaviour, but there might be a reson for it.

My advice is to do your best to stay calm. Things might change when the baby comes. Less hormones and the painful part for her is over.

That's a womans perspective anyway, hope it helps!!

Phatfrog, buy condoms ? Why , i surport my kids , see them a few times a week, n proud to be a dad! 2nd , this is her 3rd to, so it's a bit different , but i understand your points your made and thank you for that !!

Phatfrog, buy condoms ? Why , i surport my kids , see them a few times a week, n proud to be a dad! 2nd , this is her 3rd to, so it's a bit different , but i understand your points your made and thank you for that !!

I was joking. But if you want to avoid unplanned pregnancys, they're a good help
But good on you for standing by your kids, as I said, there are a lot who don't. As I said, after the birth, you both may feel very differently about everything.

Well these things happen , u cnt changed what happens, just got to man up to what happened ! Well I hope it does change but , would hornmoes change a girl that bad ?

Well these things happen , u cnt changed what happens, just got to man up to what happened ! Well I hope it does change but , would hornmoes change a girl that bad ?

Yep

I think it's about time to go gay mate!

GWYN!!!!! GWYN!!!! Where are you? We've got someone here needs relationship advice. GWYN!!!!

fair play thats tickled me some what

Jeremy Kyle pays 500 quid I believe.

I think it's about time to go gay mate!

Sounds like you're talking from experience here!

1. Women are barking made at the best of times, pregnancy/hormones turns most of them into gibbering loons.

2. In the first couple of months, even first couple of years, a new woman can be all over you, not sure whether it's the excitement/novelty of a new relationship, but in time things settle down, the "magic" fades a bit. ALWAYS.
You can't stay in bed forever, and you need to have something between you when you get up. Try to sit down with her, and ask her how she really feels, the arguments/anger could be just a smokescreen for the real problem, maybe she just doesn't love you and is trying to force a situation where YOU end the relationship so she won't feel guilty. You then need to work through whatever that problem is and make a decision, and stick with it.

3. Not wanting to sound patronising, but I'm 47 and you're 22, you've got your whole life ahead of you and while I'm sure you love your kids, you should be out having a laugh, watching football, setting yourself up for life and not worrying about child maintenance and changing nappies.

1. Women are barking made at the best of times, pregnancy/hormones turns most of them into gibbering loons.

2. In the first couple of months, even first couple of years, a new woman can be all over you, not sure whether it's the excitement/novelty of a new relationship, but in time things settle down, the "magic" fades a bit. ALWAYS.
You can't stay in bed forever, and you need to have something between you when you get up. Try to sit down with her, and ask her how she really feels, the arguments/anger could be just a smokescreen for the real problem, maybe she just doesn't love you and is trying to force a situation where YOU end the relationship so she won't feel guilty. You then need to work through whatever that problem is and make a decision, and stick with it.

3. Not wanting to sound patronising, but I'm 47 and you're 22, you've got your whole life ahead of you and while I'm sure you love your kids, you should be out having a laugh, watching football, setting yourself up for life and not worrying about child maintenance and changing nappies.

You're so very right, as I got married at 22 and I'm on my third wife now!

I've still live my life, still go down the city , still live my life, but got the added bonus of my kids in my life

After 2 days of arse licking , sweet talking , this moring she decided to give us another go! Now for the next 3 moths till my lil girls here I gotta be on my best behaviour !! Haha

Thanks for all the advice !!!
Much love xx