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BBM and Vincent Tan

Sat May 09, 2026 12:55 pm

Looks like BBM and Vincent Tan have had a meeting.

Posted on social media by BBM's wife:





Brian Barry-Murphy jets to Malaysia to meet Vincent Tan as big Cardiff City summer begins


The Bluebirds head coach flew out to the Asian country to meet with owner Vincent Tan



Brian Barry-Murphy travelled to Malaysia to meet Vincent Tan face-to-face for the first time since becoming Cardiff City head coach, as preparations ramp up for a pivotal summer at the club.



Barry-Murphy’s wife, television presenter Sarah-Jane Crawford, posted a series of photographs and videos from the family’s Malaysian holiday on social media, with one image showing the Cardiff boss and Crawford alongside Bluebirds owner Tan.



The final video in the carousel showed Tan personally giving Barry-Murphy and Crawford a tour of the Kuala Lumpur skyline from the top of one of the city’s skyscrapers.
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Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sat May 09, 2026 1:22 pm

Our Vincent in "lucky blue " also! Maybe he believes in BBM and give him some backing.

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sat May 09, 2026 1:55 pm

All the right noises are coming out of the club at the moment the rumours bbm is being backed properly this summer are gathering pace , are we about to see tans final gamble in trying to get us back to the premier league so he can sell the club at the highest price possible

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sat May 09, 2026 2:12 pm

looks more happier and healthier Tan does
maybe staying away from the club this season helped him be more happier
BBM probably encouraging Tan to return to watch cardiff again
alongside transfers etc

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sat May 09, 2026 3:12 pm

I think BBMs wife is gonna prove to be a real asset to the club :love4: :love4:

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sat May 09, 2026 3:15 pm

Absolutely class, love to see it.

Need more of this from Tan going forward.

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sat May 09, 2026 3:48 pm

I remember when Riza was summoned by Tan and that didn't work out too well.

This time though, it looks like the stubborn emperor may have been wooed or even mesmerised by the Irish charm of BBM and the sultry good looks of his missus.

Let's hope Tan opens his pockets a bit.

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sat May 09, 2026 4:04 pm

The Cobra Returns wrote:Our Vincent in "lucky blue " also! Maybe he believes in BBM and give him some backing.

That was my first thought when I saw that lovely picture.
Strange as blue used to be unlucky ? maybe Vincent IS making an effort and good to see them together and hopefully He backs us with some money in the summer for BBM targets :bluescarf:

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sat May 09, 2026 4:07 pm

powysblue wrote:
The Cobra Returns wrote:Our Vincent in "lucky blue " also! Maybe he believes in BBM and give him some backing.

That was my first thought when I saw that lovely picture.
Strange as blue used to be unlucky ? maybe Vincent IS making an effort and good to see them together and hopefully He backs us with some money in the summer for BBM targets :bluescarf:


And good to see Vincent with his shirt outside of his trousers :lol:

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sat May 09, 2026 5:08 pm

Tuna Pasta Bake wrote:I remember when Riza was summoned by Tan and that didn't work out too well.

This time though, it looks like the stubborn emperor may have been wooed or even mesmerised by the Irish charm of BBM and the sultry good looks of his missus.

Let's hope Tan opens his pockets a bit.


If I remember correctly Riza wasn't summoned by Tan - he just turned up uninvited to try to persuade Tan to give him the job permanently.

Tan opened the door, saw Riza and said "Who the f**k are you?"

Then, after Riza came back from Malaysia for no other reasons than to piss off the fanbase and because he was cheap, Tan gave Riza the job full time.

That worked out really well didn't it?
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Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sat May 09, 2026 5:09 pm

Every year we get the same headline with a different manager… cracks me up!

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sat May 09, 2026 6:41 pm

f**k tan and his puppet clowns within. I hope to God he sells up.

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sat May 09, 2026 8:51 pm

As much as we want Tan to sell, it seems certain that it won't happen this summer.

So it would help if BBM has a good relationship with Tan. Going by this picture and other stuff, I think he does. Even little things like introducing Tan to his wife will help the relationship between Tan and BBM.

That will all only help him in getting support from Tan for players he wants this summer.

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sat May 09, 2026 8:56 pm

worcester_ccfc wrote:As much as we want Tan to sell, it seems certain that it won't happen this summer.

So it would help if BBM has a good relationship with Tan. Going by this picture and other stuff, I think he does. Even little things like introducing Tan to his wife will help the relationship between Tan and BBM.

That will all only help him in getting support from Tan for players he wants this summer.

Tan won't sell this summer he wants one more go to try and get us back in the premier league so he can sell at a premium, which is why im convinced he will fully back bbm this summer

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sat May 09, 2026 10:54 pm

Blue since 1981 wrote:
worcester_ccfc wrote:As much as we want Tan to sell, it seems certain that it won't happen this summer.

So it would help if BBM has a good relationship with Tan. Going by this picture and other stuff, I think he does. Even little things like introducing Tan to his wife will help the relationship between Tan and BBM.

That will all only help him in getting support from Tan for players he wants this summer.

Tan won't sell this summer he wants one more go to try and get us back in the premier league so he can sell at a premium, which is why im convinced he will fully back bbm this summer


Yeah, I totally agree. That's why I said it's almost certain we won't be sold this summer.

I hope that BBM is backed, because top eight (play-offs) would be achievable then.

I do think this visit will help that, because they both seem genuinely happy to see each other.

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sun May 10, 2026 11:30 am

Mrs BBM's trousers higher than Vinny's!

:o

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sun May 10, 2026 11:45 am

Could it be a fresh start???
Tan has never been on my Xmas card list (want him to sell up)
But will shut my gob for the good of the club.

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sun May 10, 2026 8:54 pm

I think we need 9 players in. 2 FBs. CH, 2 STRIKERS, 2 WINGERS, 2 MIDFIELDERS. What’s your thoughts. :ayatollah:

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sun May 10, 2026 8:58 pm

Murphys twisting tans arm perhaps or has tan tied murphys hands together behind his back.

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Sun May 10, 2026 9:05 pm

Wardy64 wrote:I think we need 9 players in. 2 FBs. CH, 2 STRIKERS, 2 WINGERS, 2 MIDFIELDERS. What’s your thoughts. :ayatollah:

Agree except midfielders, unless Wintle leaves, then 1 holding yes, as Mafico could be in squad as back up.

Re: BBM and Vincent Tan

Mon May 11, 2026 10:57 am

Shame he couldnt be bothered to come to any home or away game to watch our team or speak to bbm.oh well,I am not suprised you be honest.