Sat Mar 13, 2021 7:13 am
Sat Mar 13, 2021 7:54 am
Sat Mar 13, 2021 8:15 am
BarryWelsh88 wrote:It's amazing what stir can be made by parents of rejected kids.
I'm going to guess one is Jarrad (unsure of spelling) as referenced in the Daily Mail during the Bellamy accusations.
The second (?) - very interesting as to who.
Sat Mar 13, 2021 8:22 am
Sat Mar 13, 2021 9:26 am
Sat Mar 13, 2021 10:01 am
Winchmore Hill Bluebird wrote:Bullying is always wrong.
Nonetheless, football is a mans’ game and as such, players- even teenaged academy kids - need to sometimes toughen up.
Sat Mar 13, 2021 10:11 am
Sat Mar 13, 2021 10:21 am
Sat Mar 13, 2021 10:23 am
rumpo kid wrote:Different ways of dealing with it.. me old man always said if youre getting bullied physically, whack em hard. Doesnt happen again. Appreciate not all kids can do that, but kids with a tougher streak should also stand up..
Verbal bullying... well, thats life and you have to figure it out.
Sat Mar 13, 2021 11:01 am
BarryWelsh88 wrote:Sven I have been anything but negative since David Brent left us.
Sat Mar 13, 2021 11:09 am
skidemin wrote:rumpo kid wrote:Different ways of dealing with it.. me old man always said if youre getting bullied physically, whack em hard. Doesnt happen again. Appreciate not all kids can do that, but kids with a tougher streak should also stand up..
Verbal bullying... well, thats life and you have to figure it out.
this is not about being bullied by other boys though....
Sat Mar 13, 2021 11:56 am
Sven wrote:skidemin wrote:rumpo kid wrote:Different ways of dealing with it.. me old man always said if youre getting bullied physically, whack em hard. Doesnt happen again. Appreciate not all kids can do that, but kids with a tougher streak should also stand up..
Verbal bullying... well, thats life and you have to figure it out.
this is not about being bullied by other boys though....
Is that true...?![]()
Maybe (and this is where the guessing game is bang out of order) the two suspended staff simply did nothing to stop bullying?
As I said above, let the club do the responsible thing and let us know the outcome at the appropriate time
I don't recall Craig Bellamy being afforded the civility of being innocent until found guilty (which he never was) by many judgementals on here but maybe these people will?
Sat Mar 13, 2021 11:56 am
Sat Mar 13, 2021 1:14 pm
skidemin wrote:Sven wrote:skidemin wrote:rumpo kid wrote:Different ways of dealing with it.. me old man always said if youre getting bullied physically, whack em hard. Doesnt happen again. Appreciate not all kids can do that, but kids with a tougher streak should also stand up..
Verbal bullying... well, thats life and you have to figure it out.
this is not about being bullied by other boys though....
Is that true...?![]()
Maybe (and this is where the guessing game is bang out of order) the two suspended staff simply did nothing to stop bullying?
As I said above, let the club do the responsible thing and let us know the outcome at the appropriate time
I don't recall Craig Bellamy being afforded the civility of being innocent until found guilty (which he never was) by many judgementals on here but maybe these people will?
maybe....![]()
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yeah ok ..... maybe there are martians too...
as for the CB thing ... at the time people were far more inclined to jump to calling children snowflakes than even consider there was a problem...
Sat Mar 13, 2021 1:39 pm
Winchmore Hill Bluebird wrote:Bullying is always wrong.
Nonetheless, football is a mans’ game and as such, players- even teenaged academy kids - need to sometimes toughen up.
Sat Mar 13, 2021 1:41 pm
Sven wrote:skidemin wrote:Sven wrote:skidemin wrote:rumpo kid wrote:Different ways of dealing with it.. me old man always said if youre getting bullied physically, whack em hard. Doesnt happen again. Appreciate not all kids can do that, but kids with a tougher streak should also stand up..
Verbal bullying... well, thats life and you have to figure it out.
this is not about being bullied by other boys though....
Is that true...?![]()
Maybe (and this is where the guessing game is bang out of order) the two suspended staff simply did nothing to stop bullying?
As I said above, let the club do the responsible thing and let us know the outcome at the appropriate time
I don't recall Craig Bellamy being afforded the civility of being innocent until found guilty (which he never was) by many judgementals on here but maybe these people will?
maybe....![]()
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yeah ok ..... maybe there are martians too...
as for the CB thing ... at the time people were far more inclined to jump to calling children snowflakes than even consider there was a problem...
Nice response![]()
Wasn't particularly aimed at you originally but you show a certain ignorance in that post
I am of an era where real 'bullying' was common place and in most workplaces (sadly) accepted as part of life
Trust me, you didn't want to be an apprentice in many places back then...
I am not saying bullying hasn't taken or doesn't take place; it certainly does. I'm just saying people need to wait on the facts before villifying people who might be innocent of the claims made against them
Sat Mar 13, 2021 1:49 pm
Sat Mar 13, 2021 1:50 pm
skidemin wrote:Sven wrote:skidemin wrote:Sven wrote:skidemin wrote:rumpo kid wrote:Different ways of dealing with it.. me old man always said if youre getting bullied physically, whack em hard. Doesnt happen again. Appreciate not all kids can do that, but kids with a tougher streak should also stand up..
Verbal bullying... well, thats life and you have to figure it out.
this is not about being bullied by other boys though....
Is that true...?![]()
Maybe (and this is where the guessing game is bang out of order) the two suspended staff simply did nothing to stop bullying?
As I said above, let the club do the responsible thing and let us know the outcome at the appropriate time
I don't recall Craig Bellamy being afforded the civility of being innocent until found guilty (which he never was) by many judgementals on here but maybe these people will?
maybe....![]()
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![]()
yeah ok ..... maybe there are martians too...
as for the CB thing ... at the time people were far more inclined to jump to calling children snowflakes than even consider there was a problem...
Nice response![]()
Wasn't particularly aimed at you originally but you show a certain ignorance in that post
I am of an era where real 'bullying' was common place and in most workplaces (sadly) accepted as part of life
Trust me, you didn't want to be an apprentice in many places back then...
I am not saying bullying hasn't taken or doesn't take place; it certainly does. I'm just saying people need to wait on the facts before villifying people who might be innocent of the claims made against them
as someone who did his trade in the 70s ..trust me your wrong.... bullying was not rife or common place { most people are not bullies or find it acceptable } and should bullying occur the culprit , normally a pip squeek { snowflake in todays lingo } would be dealt with..... just not through official channels..
Sat Mar 13, 2021 2:04 pm
Bakedalasker wrote:skidemin wrote:Sven wrote:skidemin wrote:Sven wrote:skidemin wrote:rumpo kid wrote:Different ways of dealing with it.. me old man always said if youre getting bullied physically, whack em hard. Doesnt happen again. Appreciate not all kids can do that, but kids with a tougher streak should also stand up..
Verbal bullying... well, thats life and you have to figure it out.
this is not about being bullied by other boys though....
Is that true...?![]()
Maybe (and this is where the guessing game is bang out of order) the two suspended staff simply did nothing to stop bullying?
As I said above, let the club do the responsible thing and let us know the outcome at the appropriate time
I don't recall Craig Bellamy being afforded the civility of being innocent until found guilty (which he never was) by many judgementals on here but maybe these people will?
maybe....![]()
![]()
![]()
yeah ok ..... maybe there are martians too...
as for the CB thing ... at the time people were far more inclined to jump to calling children snowflakes than even consider there was a problem...
Nice response![]()
Wasn't particularly aimed at you originally but you show a certain ignorance in that post
I am of an era where real 'bullying' was common place and in most workplaces (sadly) accepted as part of life
Trust me, you didn't want to be an apprentice in many places back then...
I am not saying bullying hasn't taken or doesn't take place; it certainly does. I'm just saying people need to wait on the facts before villifying people who might be innocent of the claims made against them
as someone who did his trade in the 70s ..trust me your wrong.... bullying was not rife or common place { most people are not bullies or find it acceptable } and should bullying occur the culprit , normally a pip squeek { snowflake in todays lingo } would be dealt with..... just not through official channels..
Depended where you work and it was down to the management to sort it out. That was were the problem laid.
Sat Mar 13, 2021 2:11 pm
Bakedalasker wrote:skidemin wrote:Sven wrote:skidemin wrote:Sven wrote:skidemin wrote:rumpo kid wrote:Different ways of dealing with it.. me old man always said if youre getting bullied physically, whack em hard. Doesnt happen again. Appreciate not all kids can do that, but kids with a tougher streak should also stand up..
Verbal bullying... well, thats life and you have to figure it out.
this is not about being bullied by other boys though....
Is that true...?![]()
Maybe (and this is where the guessing game is bang out of order) the two suspended staff simply did nothing to stop bullying?
As I said above, let the club do the responsible thing and let us know the outcome at the appropriate time
I don't recall Craig Bellamy being afforded the civility of being innocent until found guilty (which he never was) by many judgementals on here but maybe these people will?
maybe....![]()
![]()
![]()
yeah ok ..... maybe there are martians too...
as for the CB thing ... at the time people were far more inclined to jump to calling children snowflakes than even consider there was a problem...
Nice response![]()
Wasn't particularly aimed at you originally but you show a certain ignorance in that post
I am of an era where real 'bullying' was common place and in most workplaces (sadly) accepted as part of life
Trust me, you didn't want to be an apprentice in many places back then...
I am not saying bullying hasn't taken or doesn't take place; it certainly does. I'm just saying people need to wait on the facts before villifying people who might be innocent of the claims made against them
as someone who did his trade in the 70s ..trust me your wrong.... bullying was not rife or common place { most people are not bullies or find it acceptable } and should bullying occur the culprit , normally a pip squeek { snowflake in todays lingo } would be dealt with..... just not through official channels..
Depended where you work and it was down to the management to sort it out. That was were the problem laid.
Sat Mar 13, 2021 2:21 pm
Sat Mar 13, 2021 7:53 pm
ion wrote:The thing is these days it's procedure to suspend staff when complaints have been made ,it does not mean there guilty of doing it ,they do that in case it is going on to protect the person making the complaints,