Mon Jan 05, 2015 3:33 pm
Mon Jan 05, 2015 3:44 pm
Mon Jan 05, 2015 4:03 pm
Karl wrote:Ridiculous speculation.
Mon Jan 05, 2015 4:11 pm
Mon Jan 05, 2015 4:33 pm
SwampCCFC wrote:what is this thing about 'losing face' that people always talk about with vincent tan?
i've never seen this concept discussed about other owners, can someone explain it to me?
Mon Jan 05, 2015 5:35 pm
GSO Cardiff City wrote:SwampCCFC wrote:what is this thing about 'losing face' that people always talk about with vincent tan?
i've never seen this concept discussed about other owners, can someone explain it to me?
Losing face isn't really a problem for most owners because more often than not they listen to the fans. BUT it is the same losing face that happens with all other stubborn people the world over
Mon Jan 05, 2015 6:24 pm
powysblue wrote:GSO Cardiff City wrote:SwampCCFC wrote:what is this thing about 'losing face' that people always talk about with vincent tan?
i've never seen this concept discussed about other owners, can someone explain it to me?
Losing face isn't really a problem for most owners because more often than not they listen to the fans. BUT it is the same losing face that happens with all other stubborn people the world over
Not the whole story, GSO, the problem with "loosing face" or more to the point - perceived to be backing down (ie, loosing face) by fellow south east Asian people (Malaysia, Indonesia, Thai, Philippines, Vietnamese, Cambodia) is a given.
Although slightly different culture, the Japanese "death before dishonor" (WWII) - they would rather kill themselves than surrender ( In their culture that would be the ultimate shame)
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Tue Jan 06, 2015 2:43 am
Tue Jan 06, 2015 9:20 am
SwampCCFC wrote:powysblue wrote:GSO Cardiff City wrote:SwampCCFC wrote:what is this thing about 'losing face' that people always talk about with vincent tan?
i've never seen this concept discussed about other owners, can someone explain it to me?
Losing face isn't really a problem for most owners because more often than not they listen to the fans. BUT it is the same losing face that happens with all other stubborn people the world over
Not the whole story, GSO, the problem with "loosing face" or more to the point - perceived to be backing down (ie, loosing face) by fellow south east Asian people (Malaysia, Indonesia, Thai, Philippines, Vietnamese, Cambodia) is a given.
Although slightly different culture, the Japanese "death before dishonor" (WWII) - they would rather kill themselves than surrender ( In their culture that would be the ultimate shame)
Blooobirds Forever !!!![]()
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so, if vincent tan decided one morning he was going to wear sandals, and the weather changed drastically such that it was now -20C, would he decide that he wouldn't want to lose face and wear them regardless?
if you make a decision that proves to be the wrong one, does the not wanting to lose face mean that you ignore all the rational reasons to change your mind? effectively thats what tan is doing here. i call that irrational stubbornness, or even plain stupidity.