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talking about dodgy texts

Sat Dec 13, 2014 1:18 am

From experience there is always one desperate guy who seems to sniff around your misses. Problem is 'that guy' is now texting my misses shit which crosses the line, i casually called her up on it and she was telling me that she just ignores it and too be fair she does. However ny misses and this guy are also part of a larger mutual friends group whom i dont socialise with often, therefore they are out quite a bit,so from time to time theres photos of them loolong quite cushty on facebook. i dont want to sound immature and jealous here, but at what point do you justify leathering the f*ck into someone whos pushing the boundries with your misses?? Sozza as i know this is off topic but ive had a few sherbets and am curious to similiar people's opinion...

Re: talking about dodgy texts

Sat Dec 13, 2014 1:21 am

Warn him off i say.

Re: talking about dodgy texts

Sat Dec 13, 2014 1:28 am

He's a slimey kent tho and he wants a reaction. Im just thinking if i do react im going to make it worthwile haha. He definitely wants me to tell him to back off. So frustrating

Re: talking about dodgy texts

Sat Dec 13, 2014 7:18 am

Swap your nametag on his christmas present to her then give him a beating after christmas. Clava up and deny all knowledge with a cheeky smirk towards him as-well 8-)

Re: talking about dodgy texts

Sat Dec 13, 2014 7:45 am

Have a chat.

Re: talking about dodgy texts

Sat Dec 13, 2014 9:29 am

griff105 wrote:Have a chat.


Yes but with the misses. Remember it takes two to tango.

If she completely ignores him, tells him to pack it in etc etc but he continues then its harassment. That can be reported.

However if she continues in any way to make contact then forget the harassment. In fact I would start questioning her.

Re: talking about dodgy texts

Sat Dec 13, 2014 9:42 am

Give him a pasting cheeky tw*t is taking the piss

Re: talking about dodgy texts

Sat Dec 13, 2014 12:20 pm

You want a stern word with your missus if she's allowing this to happen, no smoke without fire and all that, have they past history ? do you know what goes on between them when you aint around ?

I'd be f*cking tamping and want answers.

Re: talking about dodgy texts

Sat Dec 13, 2014 12:27 pm

Bakedalasker wrote:
griff105 wrote:Have a chat.


Yes but with the misses. Remember it takes two to tango.

If she completely ignores him, tells him to pack it in etc etc but he continues then its harassment. That can be reported.

However if she continues in any way to make contact then forget the harassment. In fact I would start questioning her.


Yep good point. :thumbup:

Re: talking about dodgy texts

Sat Dec 13, 2014 4:05 pm

PortBlue wrote:From experience there is always one desperate guy who seems to sniff around your misses. Problem is 'that guy' is now texting my misses shit which crosses the line, i casually called her up on it and she was telling me that she just ignores it and too be fair she does. However ny misses and this guy are also part of a larger mutual friends group whom i dont socialise with often, therefore they are out quite a bit,so from time to time theres photos of them loolong quite cushty on facebook. i dont want to sound immature and jealous here, but at what point do you justify leathering the f*ck into someone whos pushing the boundries with your misses?? Sozza as i know this is off topic but ive had a few sherbets and am curious to similiar people's opinion...



If he's said something that crosses the line, for me that's the point when I speak to him directly and tell him strait. If he ignores what you say or gives you lip, it's your misses responsibility to back you up and tell him to do one. If she's well trained you won't need to throw any blows!