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Thu Nov 13, 2014 5:38 am
I a full blown alcohol bwn since i was 10 it goes hand and and ahnd with oue sport , i drop msj's valiums why im saying this i dont kmow? lasd f* um trust me im goin up the docs i wanna die trust me i got no hep nut im here
Thu Nov 13, 2014 8:15 am
During the darkest hour, the brightest light can pierce the blackness. Cling on during the dark times and follow the light when it shines. There is always hope so never give up fella.
Thu Nov 13, 2014 8:17 am
Blueboo wrote:During the darkest hour, the brightest light can pierce the blackness. Cling on during the dark times and follow the light when it shines. There is always hope so never give up fella.
Thu Nov 13, 2014 8:17 am
Great post Blueboo, I have struggled with alcohol in the past, in fact it's a running battle, get to the doctors and be honest mate. All the best
Thu Nov 13, 2014 9:32 am
My last pint was 5173 days ago.
go see your local drug and alcohol team mate. if you want it its there for the taking.
Clean start for 2015.
Thu Nov 13, 2014 9:34 am
The trick is to find things you care about more than the alcohol and focus your attention on them. Things like your family or a sport, job, hobby or target! Find something fulfilling that makes you feel good about yourself. Any fool can stare into the bottom of a glass but they will always tend to be hollow and empty inside.
You have already made the first step so it must be in you to quit! You could try Alcoholics Anominous for support to.keep a chocolate bar handy to help beat off the cravings to. I have never been an alcoholic but I have been dependant. Since I took up running I haven't bothered!
Thu Nov 13, 2014 10:13 am
lyndipops wrote:The trick is to find things you care about more than the alcohol and focus your attention on them. Things like your family or a sport, job, hobby or target! Find something fulfilling that makes you feel good about yourself. Any fool can stare into the bottom of a glass but they will always tend to be hollow and empty inside.
You have already made the first step so it must be in you to quit! You could try Alcoholics Anominous for support to.keep a chocolate bar handy to help beat off the cravings to. I have never been an alcoholic but I have been dependant. Since I took up running I haven't bothered!

Totally agree, my dad's been going to AA for a good few years, and some of the people you meet there are absolutely outstanding. Even after his cancer diagnosis he hasn't even thought about having a drink that's the effect this kind of group can have. best of luck to you Nut and the rest of you
Thu Nov 13, 2014 10:24 am
Keep on keeping on
Thu Nov 13, 2014 1:10 pm
Thanks for the kind words lads *bow* just woke up hung over like a pair bollocks. I'm off up the Dr 5pm scared as f**
Thu Nov 13, 2014 1:32 pm
Good luck fella. like all hard roads there will be ups and downs. only you can win this battle and it wont be easy, but take heart from those on here who have been through similar experiences and use all the help that is offered you.
Thu Nov 13, 2014 2:25 pm
If you can find time to do some volunteer work for a charity (however little), you will see that your contribution can benefit others who may be experiencing similar issues in their life, or that may be less fortunate than yourself, if they have major disabilitiesfor example.
Just by understanding and appreciating you can make a positive difference to other people's lives, this can have a profound impact on how you perceive yourself and the way you see your future.
Your addiction can be treated, whilst others may be struggling with lifelong disabilities where there is no treatment, bar the kindness of others to make their lives more bearable.
Once you have got treatment for yourself, try to find something meaningful to build your self esteem. You will have much more to offer than you may think and all you need to give is time.
Thu Nov 13, 2014 3:27 pm
All the best mate, it will be hard but I'm sure you have it in you to get through this.
Thu Nov 13, 2014 10:33 pm
try alcoholics anonymous .mate.i had my 12th sober birthday tuesday.a life beyond my wildest dreams
Thu Nov 13, 2014 11:07 pm
jtc wrote:try alcoholics anonymous .mate.i had my 12th sober birthday tuesday.a life beyond my wildest dreams
Well done mate aa has done it for me 2 .8 years coming up its helped me through all sorts deaths divorce illnesses, citys relegation and mad owners and given me a great life.give it a go nut19740
Fri Nov 14, 2014 9:43 am
so how did the doctors go?
Fri Nov 14, 2014 9:53 am
clemoslovechild wrote:jtc wrote:try alcoholics anonymous .mate.i had my 12th sober birthday tuesday.a life beyond my wildest dreams
Well done mate aa has done it for me 2 .8 years coming up its helped me through all sorts deaths divorce illnesses, citys relegation and mad owners and given me a great life.give it a go nut19740
thanks pal.well done too you too.iv had all the same type of things happen as you have.our owner is locked up in a hong kong jail

i have developed a faith in the years iv been sober.i spend a lot of time going into prisons now.sometimes 3x a week.only 2x this week though.those meetings are what i like best.lads who want whats on offer ..my home group is cannock sunday night bb group.the big book is a prescription for a miracle.
Fri Nov 14, 2014 11:20 am
How are are you OP?
Simplest line of advice and an effective one.
I had a serious gambling problem which still haunts me, and spent many weekends on huge alcohol and drug benders for 10 years, more a
psychological addiction than physical but If I can get over it anyone can.
I lost my parents in the wrath of this (it wasn't the reason for the addiction)
Ironically since then I've sorted my life out this year you'd of thought its the other way around
I'm still only 27 but age is irrelevent really you could be 47
find a reason to commit to being disciplined
Changes are made, when changes are made!
You need to have an hour with yourself and really think what your passions are and the type of person you are and what you
could do alternatively if the situation your in is stemming the drink problem.
It's a form enjoyment, escapism, relaxing, stress release, boredom it could be a number of things.
open your mind to all that's on offer and change your outlook to life,
we live in the best generation of mankind in the best country with so much on offer,
so much to do we don't know how lucky we are, small things to big things, you need to make the most of all that's
to offer becaause life truely is a beautiful thing.
Billions will never experience what we have and millions of generations before us never
Fri Nov 14, 2014 11:48 am
Start smoking weed, it's safe and you do not get hangovers, lots of benefits to cannabis. Take a look at the facts
Fri Nov 14, 2014 11:56 am
If you live in Cardiff or the Vale of Glamorgan then phone 03003007000 or go to
http://www.edas.wales.nhs.uk This will put you in touch with a substance misuse proffesional who will help you with any substance misuse issues.
Tue Nov 18, 2014 8:20 am
thanks lads im out of my tits i got a bommer 3l of shit shes left me ? i wanna die i wana die
Tue Nov 18, 2014 9:52 am
nut19740 wrote:thanks lads im out of my tits i got a bommer 3l of shit shes left me ? i wanna die i wana die
Annis give this guy a call or do ask someone to do a welfare check on him to make sure he is ok
Tue Nov 18, 2014 10:19 am
Annis, don't know what you want to do with this.... Pretty worrying.
Tue Nov 18, 2014 11:45 am
Barry Chuckle wrote:Annis, don't know what you want to do with this.... Pretty worrying.
Have to agree, Alex.
Does anyone know this guy?? He needs help urgently, as I think the post is genuine!
Tue Nov 18, 2014 2:08 pm
Sven wrote:Barry Chuckle wrote:Annis, don't know what you want to do with this.... Pretty worrying.
Have to agree, Alex.
Does anyone know this guy?? He needs help urgently, as I think the post is genuine!

Chris/Alex,
I'm going to leave it on here, Does anyone know this poster? its Worrying, very in fact.
I'm leaving it on here hoping someone knows him? ? ?
Tue Nov 18, 2014 7:32 pm
If this guy is real then he seriously needs help, if he's taking the piss an having a joke here he also needs help.
I've had my wife at deaths door 3 times in the last 30 months on life support machines, she was paralysed totally for 3 months from Oct 2013 till Jan 2014 couldn't even blink. With her unable to work anymore the responsibility for bringing the bacon home is totally with me. I work between 65-70+ hours every week bar none but once all the bills are sorted there's virtually nothing left. I'm 61 yrs old and will need to work until 68-69 as the large mortgage and large loan don't finish till then.
My wife could relapse at any time and go back into hospital as that's the nature of her illness (no cure she's got it for life) Guillian Barre.
It's the hand we've been dealt so have to knuckle down and get on with it, we get no handouts as I work, no wet room, no stairlift (I have to carry my wife upstairs to bath her), she sleeps downstairs on the settee as getting her up and down the stairs is too difficult to be done every day twice, she has a commode in the living room as the toilet is upstairs, I could go on as she needs constant care and is in pain most days and without the help of her brother and her daughter we'd be totally stuffed.
Despite all this I'm not an alcoholic, drug addict, gambling addict and stopped smoking 18 years ago although I could use my misfortune as an excuse to be one or all of these things, my priority is my wife's wellbeing and can never be replaced by any of the aforementioned.
Maybe I'm mentally strong and can handle my misfortune better than most but would feel bad about letting my wife down if I turned to alcohol or drugs but can understand some people turning to these things under extreme circumstances and hope this fella gets any help he needs but it will need strong willpower.
Tue Nov 18, 2014 11:34 pm
Ummmm... Look up the IP and give it to social services or the police?
Wed Nov 19, 2014 5:05 pm
nut19740 wrote:I a full blown alcohol bwn since i was 10 it goes hand and and ahnd with oue sport , i drop msj's valiums why im saying this i dont kmow? lasd f* um trust me im goin up the docs i wanna die trust me i got no hep nut im here

I'm wankered.AA? Don't bother, share your problems on here with us because after all we're friends. I'll share my additions tomorrow.
Wed Nov 19, 2014 6:27 pm
Brighton & hove Albion wrote:nut19740 wrote:I a full blown alcohol bwn since i was 10 it goes hand and and ahnd with oue sport , i drop msj's valiums why im saying this i dont kmow? lasd f* um trust me im goin up the docs i wanna die trust me i got no hep nut im here

I'm wankered.AA? Don't bother, share your problems on here with us because after all we're friends. I'll share my additions tomorrow.
What are you 'adding' tomorrow, Pat?
The rest of us are talking about the lad's addi
ctions!
Wed Nov 19, 2014 6:52 pm
Sven wrote:Brighton & hove Albion wrote:nut19740 wrote:I a full blown alcohol bwn since i was 10 it goes hand and and ahnd with oue sport , i drop msj's valiums why im saying this i dont kmow? lasd f* um trust me im goin up the docs i wanna die trust me i got no hep nut im here

I'm wankered.AA? Don't bother, share your problems on here with us because after all we're friends. I'll share my additions tomorrow.
What are you 'adding' tomorrow, Pat?
The rest of us are talking about the lad's addi
ctions!

We've all addictions in way way or another but totally understand the OP sentiments and am saying talk to us as we'll try and help and I'll give me addictions tomorrow. I want to know why he has this addiction? It could be a number of things that has caused this and that's why I'll give my depressing account tomorrow. I often think about it and one day I will. it's a matter of time. Additions can lead to manic depression and have lost 5 friends through suicides.
Maybe I'm talking garbish, I have has a few but that's no surprise.
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