Fri Feb 12, 2021 10:34 pm
TheHangedMan wrote:I have no problem with anyone taking drugs, it is their choice and their free will to do so.
However, if you are governed by an employer, and contract, that states you cannot do that, it is a totally different ball game.
In this paticular case it was not just the employer, it was the sports governing body who bans these things, obviously because they can be deemed as sport enhancing and lead to an unlevel playing field.
If you make a mistake you should take the punishment, realise your error, and not f**k up again. To make the same mistake twice in the same season borders on stupidity, or even worse addiction.
How anyone can not back the club on their correct decision is absolutely beyond my comprehension.
Fri Feb 12, 2021 10:42 pm
TheHangedMan wrote:I have no problem with anyone taking drugs, it is their choice and their free will to do so.
However, if you are governed by an employer, and contract, that states you cannot do that, it is a totally different ball game.
In this paticular case it was not just the employer, it was the sports governing body who bans these things, obviously because they can be deemed as sport enhancing and lead to an unlevel playing field.
If you make a mistake you should take the punishment, realise your error, and not f**k up again. To make the same mistake twice in the same season borders on stupidity, or even worse addiction.
How anyone can not back the club on their correct decision is absolutely beyond my comprehension.
Fri Feb 12, 2021 11:35 pm
Sat Feb 13, 2021 12:22 am
Big Hill Blue wrote:BaltimoreBlues wrote:If this was his first time I would have said the club is being way to hasty to rip up his contract. The fact he had done it before, was warned about it, and the club supported him by paying his wages, just shows what kind of person he is. I was big fan of NML, and Warnock for all he done while he was here, but I definitely have less respect for the player, and Warnock now for taking him on. Maybe I just feel it’s a bitter pill to swallow, with our former manager and player at another club.
No dude you are right NW knew and has sought out a player that has previous.
City absolutely did the right thing.
Trouble is neither Warnock nor the junkie show any shame, remorse or regret.
The money train rolls on.
Disgusting.
Sat Feb 13, 2021 2:16 am
stickywicket wrote:Why was he given anomity for so long?
He, should have been named and shamed
Sat Feb 13, 2021 8:15 am
TheHangedMan wrote:I have no problem with anyone taking drugs, it is their choice and their free will to do so.
However, if you are governed by an employer, and contract, that states you cannot do that, it is a totally different ball game.
In this paticular case it was not just the employer, it was the sports governing body who bans these things, obviously because they can be deemed as sport enhancing and lead to an unlevel playing field.
If you make a mistake you should take the punishment, realise your error, and not f**k up again. To make the same mistake twice in the same season borders on stupidity, or even worse addiction.
How anyone can not back the club on their correct decision is absolutely beyond my comprehension.
Sat Feb 13, 2021 8:51 am
Sat Feb 13, 2021 8:57 am
RV Casual wrote:People make mistakes and everyone deserves to move on.
I think the Club were right to stick with him the first time but they were left with no choice with him getting caught the second time so soon after and made the right choice. I think Skid is correct that suggests possible addiction.
It's a shame that we as a Club are the ones to have lost out but let's just hope the boy can conquer his demons and live a happy life.
Good Luck Nathaniel on your journey, let him who is without sin cast the first stone.
Sat Feb 13, 2021 9:18 am
Sat Feb 13, 2021 9:24 am
Pembroke bluebird wrote:TheHangedMan wrote:I have no problem with anyone taking drugs, it is their choice and their free will to do so.
However, if you are governed by an employer, and contract, that states you cannot do that, it is a totally different ball game.
In this paticular case it was not just the employer, it was the sports governing body who bans these things, obviously because they can be deemed as sport enhancing and lead to an unlevel playing field.
If you make a mistake you should take the punishment, realise your error, and not f**k up again. To make the same mistake twice in the same season borders on stupidity, or even worse addiction.
How anyone can not back the club on their correct decision is absolutely beyond my comprehension.
I’m not having a pop mate you’re own words you don’t have a problem with anyone taking drugs would you apply that to your own Children taken them .????
Secondly a good mate of mine had his house burgaled in court culprit used excuse he was desperate to fund his drug addiction
I DO have problems with drug taking
Sat Feb 13, 2021 9:30 am
TheHangedMan wrote:Pembroke bluebird wrote:TheHangedMan wrote:I have no problem with anyone taking drugs, it is their choice and their free will to do so.
However, if you are governed by an employer, and contract, that states you cannot do that, it is a totally different ball game.
In this paticular case it was not just the employer, it was the sports governing body who bans these things, obviously because they can be deemed as sport enhancing and lead to an unlevel playing field.
If you make a mistake you should take the punishment, realise your error, and not f**k up again. To make the same mistake twice in the same season borders on stupidity, or even worse addiction.
How anyone can not back the club on their correct decision is absolutely beyond my comprehension.
I’m not having a pop mate you’re own words you don’t have a problem with anyone taking drugs would you apply that to your own Children taken them .????
Secondly a good mate of mine had his house burgaled in court culprit used excuse he was desperate to fund his drug addiction
I DO have problems with drug taking
I understand you PB, and this is also a response to Chris' 1st line a few posts above.
I repeat, I have no problem with anyone taking drugs as it is their own free will. I do have a massive problem with anyone infringing on other people's free will, civil liberties and rights e.g. burglarly, violence or any other matter. My children fall into the same bracket. If you are asking would I/ did I discourage my children from taking drugs? the answer is yes and I have already done this. But ultimately when they hit aldulthood it is their choice, I can only advise.
I am of the opinion that people should be allowed to do what they wish, as long as, and this is the key, they do not piss on somebody elses chips. Essentially it is the basis for common law, the law that still ultimately rules this land.
Where NML went wrong is that he willingly signed a contract that does not permit drug taking in any shape or form, and he broke that contract, more than once. In that case the club were quite within their rights to terminate said contract, and I am glad they did.
On a wider note I believe that many of these free choices have been stripped from us, the citizens, but have been portrayed by the state as "we are doing it for your own good, as we have all the experts and thus know best!". Essentially, what starts off as a free state soon slides into a "nanny state" and then quite quickly turns into a dictatorship. This is what is obviously evident now and I am utterly amazed that the vast majority cannot see it.
Please don't forget that the two biggest drug killers and life wreckers, aside of big pharma products, are alcohol and tobacco (smoking). Both of these are legal.
Sat Feb 13, 2021 9:39 am
Sat Feb 13, 2021 9:47 am
Sat Feb 13, 2021 9:53 am
Pembroke bluebird wrote:A fair reply and I respect your view I wasn’t trying to cause offence to you mate
Sat Feb 13, 2021 9:57 am
TheHangedMan wrote:Pembroke bluebird wrote:A fair reply and I respect your view I wasn’t trying to cause offence to you mate
No offence taken, you also made a fair point, I just wanted to qualify my view.![]()
This board is for opinions, on all topics, as long as people don't get abusive (of which I have been guilty of in the past!!!) there is no problem.
Annis, you are spot on......yet again, the innocent party in all of this, namely our club, has come out the worst.
Sat Feb 13, 2021 10:04 am
Sat Feb 13, 2021 10:11 am
Forever Blue wrote:NEIL HARRIS / BULLSHIT:
"He has completely ruptured the hamstring," said manager Neil Harris at the time.
"The early diagnosis of the scan is that he is not going to play again or is very unlikely to play again this season. So he is certainly ruled out for the foreseeable future."
The disruption caused to the football season due to the coronavirus pandemic meant that when Mendez-Laing was fit enough to return for the clash at home to Leeds United on June 21, he had already served his suspension.
Sat Feb 13, 2021 10:12 am
BargoedBluebird25 wrote:I bet 75% of this posts are hypocrites. The amount of times you lot have probably indulged in cocaine use then when a footballer does it you want to chuck them out to dry. The lad obviously had a problem, very very poor from the club not getting behind him and giving him help. City the only losers here.
Sat Feb 13, 2021 10:16 am
Sat Feb 13, 2021 10:34 am
BargoedBluebird25 wrote:I bet 75% of this posts are hypocrites. The amount of times you lot have probably indulged in cocaine use then when a footballer does it you want to chuck them out to dry. The lad obviously had a problem, very very poor from the club not getting behind him and giving him help. City the only losers here.
Sat Feb 13, 2021 10:39 am
Sat Feb 13, 2021 10:56 am
fred keenor wrote:Forever Blue wrote:NEIL HARRIS / BULLSHIT:
"He has completely ruptured the hamstring," said manager Neil Harris at the time.
"The early diagnosis of the scan is that he is not going to play again or is very unlikely to play again this season. So he is certainly ruled out for the foreseeable future."
The disruption caused to the football season due to the coronavirus pandemic meant that when Mendez-Laing was fit enough to return for the clash at home to Leeds United on June 21, he had already served his suspension.
It would have been better for all if NML had come out and stated what had happened.
And NW, should have steered well clear.
once yes you can make a mistake , twice? No
Sat Feb 13, 2021 11:47 am
TheHangedMan wrote:Pembroke bluebird wrote:TheHangedMan wrote:I have no problem with anyone taking drugs, it is their choice and their free will to do so.
However, if you are governed by an employer, and contract, that states you cannot do that, it is a totally different ball game.
In this paticular case it was not just the employer, it was the sports governing body who bans these things, obviously because they can be deemed as sport enhancing and lead to an unlevel playing field.
If you make a mistake you should take the punishment, realise your error, and not f**k up again. To make the same mistake twice in the same season borders on stupidity, or even worse addiction.
How anyone can not back the club on their correct decision is absolutely beyond my comprehension.
I’m not having a pop mate you’re own words you don’t have a problem with anyone taking drugs would you apply that to your own Children taken them .????
Secondly a good mate of mine had his house burgaled in court culprit used excuse he was desperate to fund his drug addiction
I DO have problems with drug taking
I understand you PB, and this is also a response to Chris' 1st line a few posts above.
I repeat, I have no problem with anyone taking drugs as it is their own free will. I do have a massive problem with anyone infringing on other people's free will, civil liberties and rights e.g. burglarly, violence or any other matter. My children fall into the same bracket. If you are asking would I/ did I discourage my children from taking drugs? the answer is yes and I have already done this. But ultimately when they hit aldulthood it is their choice, I can only advise.
I am of the opinion that people should be allowed to do what they wish, as long as, and this is the key, they do not piss on somebody elses chips. Essentially it is the basis for common law, the law that still ultimately rules this land.
Where NML went wrong is that he willingly signed a contract that does not permit drug taking in any shape or form, and he broke that contract, more than once. In that case the club were quite within their rights to terminate said contract, and I am glad they did.
On a wider note I believe that many of these free choices have been stripped from us, the citizens, but have been portrayed by the state as "we are doing it for your own good, as we have all the experts and thus know best!". Essentially, what starts off as a free state soon slides into a "nanny state" and then quite quickly turns into a dictatorship. This is what is obviously evident now and I am utterly amazed that the vast majority cannot see it.
Please don't forget that the two biggest drug killers and life wreckers, aside of big pharma products, are alcohol and tobacco (smoking). Both of these are legal.
Sat Feb 13, 2021 11:47 am
TheHangedMan wrote:Pembroke bluebird wrote:TheHangedMan wrote:I have no problem with anyone taking drugs, it is their choice and their free will to do so.
However, if you are governed by an employer, and contract, that states you cannot do that, it is a totally different ball game.
In this paticular case it was not just the employer, it was the sports governing body who bans these things, obviously because they can be deemed as sport enhancing and lead to an unlevel playing field.
If you make a mistake you should take the punishment, realise your error, and not f**k up again. To make the same mistake twice in the same season borders on stupidity, or even worse addiction.
How anyone can not back the club on their correct decision is absolutely beyond my comprehension.
I’m not having a pop mate you’re own words you don’t have a problem with anyone taking drugs would you apply that to your own Children taken them .????
Secondly a good mate of mine had his house burgaled in court culprit used excuse he was desperate to fund his drug addiction
I DO have problems with drug taking
I understand you PB, and this is also a response to Chris' 1st line a few posts above.
I repeat, I have no problem with anyone taking drugs as it is their own free will. I do have a massive problem with anyone infringing on other people's free will, civil liberties and rights e.g. burglarly, violence or any other matter. My children fall into the same bracket. If you are asking would I/ did I discourage my children from taking drugs? the answer is yes and I have already done this. But ultimately when they hit aldulthood it is their choice, I can only advise.
I am of the opinion that people should be allowed to do what they wish, as long as, and this is the key, they do not piss on somebody elses chips. Essentially it is the basis for common law, the law that still ultimately rules this land.
Where NML went wrong is that he willingly signed a contract that does not permit drug taking in any shape or form, and he broke that contract, more than once. In that case the club were quite within their rights to terminate said contract, and I am glad they did.
On a wider note I believe that many of these free choices have been stripped from us, the citizens, but have been portrayed by the state as "we are doing it for your own good, as we have all the experts and thus know best!". Essentially, what starts off as a free state soon slides into a "nanny state" and then quite quickly turns into a dictatorship. This is what is obviously evident now and I am utterly amazed that the vast majority cannot see it.
Please don't forget that the two biggest drug killers and life wreckers, aside of big pharma products, are alcohol and tobacco (smoking). Both of these are legal.
Sat Feb 13, 2021 12:28 pm
Forever Blue wrote:Look none of us are perfect and we all have skeletons in our wardrobe![]()
But I know for a fact he got caught twice before matches and I also know there way more to all this and a lot was stopped from coming out, as many on here have said first time a mistake and forgiven with full wages, but then it got out of control and in my opinion, its a disgrace that he can go straight on to Boro, our children look up to these stars.
Our Club was 100% right to terminate his contract, but sadly our club lost out big time.
Sat Feb 13, 2021 12:29 pm
Sat Feb 13, 2021 12:40 pm
Sat Feb 13, 2021 12:43 pm
DexterMorgan420 wrote:Nice to finally find out the reason. But is a ban in any sport really necessary for a non performance enhancing drug? It's a lot less harmful than Alcohol and Tobacco. I just don't get the demonising of certain drugs. If anyone is interested, look up Dr Carl Hart
Sat Feb 13, 2021 12:50 pm
OriginalGrangeEndBlue wrote:Forever Blue wrote:Look none of us are perfect and we all have skeletons in our wardrobe![]()
But I know for a fact he got caught twice before matches and I also know there way more to all this and a lot was stopped from coming out, as many on here have said first time a mistake and forgiven with full wages, but then it got out of control and in my opinion, its a disgrace that he can go straight on to Boro, our children look up to these stars.
Our Club was 100% right to terminate his contract, but sadly our club lost out big time.
I’ve been around the block a few times Annis and have more than a few skeletons in my cupboard!![]()
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But seriously, I also know there is more to this story than what has come out.
Ken Choo and the board have high principles in this matter and like you I believe they were 100% right to do what they did. I don’t care if he was our star player (which he was not) or worth 10mill.
Sat Feb 13, 2021 1:04 pm