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Re: Sala and this MB

Sat Feb 02, 2019 4:31 pm

Agree. Nantes fans had their own song for him which is easy enough for everyone to sing so I say we stick to that instead to the cringeworthy mess I unfortunately see this becoming

Re: Sala and this MB

Sat Feb 02, 2019 5:37 pm

Fergy1927 wrote:
Steve Zodiak wrote:
bluesince62 wrote:
Wolfpac wrote:Pathetic post by a pathetic poster.

He’s missed by al of us, why don’t you f*** off the forum if you don’t like it

Obvious to me,that these posters are pathetic human beings,no understanding that is not your run of the mill"former player dies" senario,how people show emotion/s is up to the individual, and affects people vastly different to others (these said posters)how dare you suggest fans are wallowing in his loss,just because you feel it's not affected you (as badly as some) you think you can put down those posters,who are trying to think of ways to alleviate their sorrow?? I cannot believe some people, this has been a very emotionally charged period for the club and all that follow it,let people grieve,show respect,for a player,who a lot of fans hoped would fire the goals to keep our club in the premier league.just because he hadn't played for us,doesn't mean we cannot grieve his loss.F***ING IDIOTS!!


Knew him personally did you? I afraid I think you have a problem grieving for a complete stranger. I have lost a son, so I know what true grief is like. Afraid I am unable to grieve for someone I saw a photograph of, or a couple of minutes on youtube. Did'nt know the lad, never set eyes on him, he was a complete stranger to me.I am terribly sorry for his parents as I know how they feel. I will let them grieve for him, they knew him and will miss him terribly. Unfortunately, I cant miss anyone who I never knew in the first place.


I'm so sorry that you lost your son. RIP. I couldn't even start to imagine how that must feel.

Agreed,sorry for your loss,I too have lost a daughter, in 1988 with leukaemia, so I know exactly how you feel believe me,30 yrs,and I still can't stop thinking of the what ifs.my dad had dementia for 4yrs before passing recently,a different kind of grief altogether :sad7: but my point is,everyone of us is different, and we all react in different ways (myself included)but it dosent mean you are right and other people are wrong,do your own thing, and let others do their's

Re: Sala and this MB

Sat Feb 02, 2019 5:43 pm

maccydee wrote:
bluesince62 wrote:
Wolfpac wrote:Pathetic post by a pathetic poster.

He’s missed by al of us, why don’t you f*** off the forum if you don’t like it

Obvious to me,that these posters are pathetic human beings,no understanding that is not your run of the mill"former player dies" senario,how people show emotion/s is up to the individual, and affects people vastly different to others (these said posters)how dare you suggest fans are wallowing in his loss,just because you feel it's not affected you (as badly as some) you think you can put down those posters,who are trying to think of ways to alleviate their sorrow?? I cannot believe some people, this has been a very emotionally charged period for the club and all that follow it,let people grieve,show respect,for a player,who a lot of fans hoped would fire the goals to keep our club in the premier league.just because he hadn't played for us,doesn't mean we cannot grieve his loss.F***ING IDIOTS!!


It’s not run of the mill former player dies. He didn’t play for us at all. Sorry to be so black and white but your post is the second worst post on this thread.

The worst being my misuse of the word parody which I rightly apologised for.

Luckily for me,I couldn't give a rats arse what you think,que sera sera, what or who gave you the authority,to tell people what to do,grow up man.

Re: Sala and this MB

Sat Feb 02, 2019 6:07 pm

bluesince62 wrote:
maccydee wrote:
bluesince62 wrote:
Wolfpac wrote:Pathetic post by a pathetic poster.

He’s missed by al of us, why don’t you f*** off the forum if you don’t like it

Obvious to me,that these posters are pathetic human beings,no understanding that is not your run of the mill"former player dies" senario,how people show emotion/s is up to the individual, and affects people vastly different to others (these said posters)how dare you suggest fans are wallowing in his loss,just because you feel it's not affected you (as badly as some) you think you can put down those posters,who are trying to think of ways to alleviate their sorrow?? I cannot believe some people, this has been a very emotionally charged period for the club and all that follow it,let people grieve,show respect,for a player,who a lot of fans hoped would fire the goals to keep our club in the premier league.just because he hadn't played for us,doesn't mean we cannot grieve his loss.F***ING IDIOTS!!


It’s not run of the mill former player dies. He didn’t play for us at all. Sorry to be so black and white but your post is the second worst post on this thread.

The worst being my misuse of the word parody which I rightly apologised for.

Luckily for me,I couldn't give a rats arse what you think,que sera sera, what or who gave you the authority,to tell people what to do,grow up man.


The same authority that lets you call people pathetic?

Re: Sala and this MB

Sat Feb 02, 2019 6:34 pm

maccydee wrote:
bluesince62 wrote:
maccydee wrote:
bluesince62 wrote:
Wolfpac wrote:Pathetic post by a pathetic poster.

He’s missed by al of us, why don’t you f*** off the forum if you don’t like it

Obvious to me,that these posters are pathetic human beings,no understanding that is not your run of the mill"former player dies" senario,how people show emotion/s is up to the individual, and affects people vastly different to others (these said posters)how dare you suggest fans are wallowing in his loss,just because you feel it's not affected you (as badly as some) you think you can put down those posters,who are trying to think of ways to alleviate their sorrow?? I cannot believe some people, this has been a very emotionally charged period for the club and all that follow it,let people grieve,show respect,for a player,who a lot of fans hoped would fire the goals to keep our club in the premier league.just because he hadn't played for us,doesn't mean we cannot grieve his loss.F***ING IDIOTS!!


It’s not run of the mill former player dies. He didn’t play for us at all. Sorry to be so black and white but your post is the second worst post on
The worst being my misuse of the word parody which I rightly apologised for.

Luckily for me,I couldn't give a rats arse what you think,que sera sera, what or who gave you the authority,to tell people what to do,grow up man.


The same authority that lets you call people pathetic?

Well people are pathetic sometimes,but to berate fellow fans for how they deal with this terrible situation :?:

Re: Sala and this MB

Sun Feb 03, 2019 12:18 am

I think the club and fans got it spot on today. Classy and respectful.

Re: Sala and this MB

Sun Feb 03, 2019 12:36 am

2blue2handle wrote:I think the club and fans got it spot on today. Classy and respectful.

Totally agree,very dignified,and the players gave their all :ayatollah:

Re: Sala and this MB

Sun Feb 03, 2019 11:17 am

2blue2handle wrote:I think the club and fans got it spot on today. Classy and respectful.


The Club got it spot on I agree, it was dignified and not OTT.

Football is a funny entity though, I just can't help but feel how I do, there was an announcement at Half Time for a fan from Ely who had past away, he was in his 90s and had been going down the City for years and he barely got a ripple of applause from those left in the stands, most people didn't even clap. Now he WAS one of our own.

Re: Sala and this MB

Sun Feb 03, 2019 2:38 pm

BarryWelsh88 wrote:‘Missed’ ? - grief junky behaviour. The tragedy has rocked our club to its very core but ‘missed’??


Check out @THgolf’s Tweet: https://twitter.com/THgolf/status/10917 ... 30400?s=08

Sing a song for Sala
We will never let you go
You will always be
At city with me

Special club and special fans

Re: Sala and this MB

Sun Feb 03, 2019 2:39 pm

RV Casual wrote:
2blue2handle wrote:I think the club and fans got it spot on today. Classy and respectful.


The Club got it spot on I agree, it was dignified and not OTT.

Football is a funny entity though, I just can't help but feel how I do, there was an announcement at Half Time for a fan from Ely who had past away, he was in his 90s and had been going down the City for years and he barely got a ripple of applause from those left in the stands, most people didn't even clap. Now he WAS one of our own.


I see your point as well

Re: Sala and this MB

Sun Feb 03, 2019 3:56 pm

Something that has not been mentioned or very rarely about ES going missing,is that he was only 28 years old, in the prime of his life and could have had a long and worthwhile life if not for this tragedy. I feel total sympathy for his family and friends and as SZ has so eloquently said, to lose a child must be the worst experience a parent can go through. I lost some work colleagues during my career and that was difficult enough to deal with but I like others on here,had never met ES and to compare his loss to a member of the family is a bit excessive.