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If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 12:17 pm

In a workplace, Army environment sports academy system or other would you tell him just to suck it up and man up and show some character . The state of our snow flake society is shocking. Probably best to wait for the full facts to emerge before i get carried away. If we ever go to war god help us. How thankful we should be to our older generations who had far less but at sane time had so much more about them. Backbone and guts in abundance is what im searchine for.

I just hope he doesn't go like Milky Mackay did.

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 12:24 pm

The point here shouldnt is the kid too sensitive. Yes he is.

The point is, should Bellamy be speaking to children like that in his position?

Reminds me slightly of the Malky and Tan saga. There is a time and a place, and Bellamy said it out of place.

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 12:36 pm

JimCP91 wrote:The point here shouldnt is the kid too sensitive. Yes he is.

The point is, should Bellamy be speaking to children like that in his position?

Reminds me slightly of the Malky and Tan saga. There is a time and a place, and Bellamy said it out of place.



Did he say it or are you another making assumptions? :?

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 12:36 pm

JimCP91 wrote:The point here shouldnt is the kid too sensitive. Yes he is.

The point is, should Bellamy be speaking to children like that in his position?

Reminds me slightly of the Malky and Tan saga. There is a time and a place, and Bellamy said it out of place.



Well I hope he doesn't lose job or media ork over it. Just learn from it and move on. Sky moved on from spit gate!!!!!!

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 1:05 pm

Where I work, people call each other c**ts on a daily basis..
The only time it nearly came to blows, was when one of the lads called another a ‘ baby’..
Didn’t go down well..

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 1:56 pm

Sven wrote:
JimCP91 wrote:The point here shouldnt is the kid too sensitive. Yes he is.

The point is, should Bellamy be speaking to children like that in his position?

Reminds me slightly of the Malky and Tan saga. There is a time and a place, and Bellamy said it out of place.



Did he say it or are you another making assumptions? :?


I’ve made no assumptions, just said he shouldn’t be saying it.

I have have met him in person, and also had a confrontation with him because my friend took a photo with him (which he was aware of) and he said he would shove my friends phone up his ass if he didn’t delete the picture.

Obviously, he did nothing and Threatened to get his big boy friends to meet us the next day.

So, from my personal experience, I wouldn’t be surprised. I think he’s an absolute wanker but I am not accusing him of anything. Just stating someone in his position shouldn’t.

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 1:56 pm

Sven wrote:
JimCP91 wrote:The point here shouldnt is the kid too sensitive. Yes he is.

The point is, should Bellamy be speaking to children like that in his position?

Reminds me slightly of the Malky and Tan saga. There is a time and a place, and Bellamy said it out of place.



Did he say it or are you another making assumptions? :?


I’ve made no assumptions, just said he shouldn’t be saying it.

I have have met him in person, and also had a confrontation with him because my friend took a photo with him (which he was aware of) and he said he would shove my friends phone up his ass if he didn’t delete the picture.

Obviously, he did nothing and Threatened to get his big boy friends to meet us the next day.

So, from my personal experience, I wouldn’t be surprised. I think he’s an absolute wanker but I am not accusing him of anything. Just stating someone in his position shouldn’t.

Edit - Reading back it looks like I did make that assumption. I’m not - but I wouldn’t be surprised.

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 2:15 pm

JimCP91 wrote:
Sven wrote:
JimCP91 wrote:The point here shouldnt is the kid too sensitive. Yes he is.

The point is, should Bellamy be speaking to children like that in his position?

Reminds me slightly of the Malky and Tan saga. There is a time and a place, and Bellamy said it out of place.



Did he say it or are you another making assumptions? :?


I’ve made no assumptions, just said he shouldn’t be saying it.

I have have met him in person, and also had a confrontation with him because my friend took a photo with him (which he was aware of) and he said he would shove my friends phone up his ass if he didn’t delete the picture.

Obviously, he did nothing and Threatened to get his big boy friends to meet us the next day.

So, from my personal experience, I wouldn’t be surprised. I think he’s an absolute wanker but I am not accusing him of anything. Just stating someone in his position shouldn’t.


And quote (JimCP91): "and Bellamy said it out of place"

That (to me and likely most others) is clearly stating that you believe Craig said those words!

Many of us have met him in person and in better circumstances than you clearly did, so your view is clearly tainted by your friends alleged experience and I wonder what was done/said to make Craig react in that way, if he did/said it at all?

Did he agree to the photo initially or was he just (in your words) "aware of" and asked for it to be deleted for any number of reasons that are his prerogative and right?

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 3:20 pm

BlueMoon1974 wrote:In a workplace, Army environment sports academy system or other would you tell him just to suck it up and man up and show some character . The state of our snow flake society is shocking. Probably best to wait for the full facts to emerge before i get carried away. If we ever go to war god help us. How thankful we should be to our older generations who had far less but at sane time had so much more about them. Backbone and guts in abundance is what im searchine for.

I just hope he doesn't go like Milky Mackay did.

My kid gets called a sheepshagger in the House........by me :lol:

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 3:22 pm

Sven wrote:
JimCP91 wrote:
Sven wrote:
JimCP91 wrote:The point here shouldnt is the kid too sensitive. Yes he is.

The point is, should Bellamy be speaking to children like that in his position?

Reminds me slightly of the Malky and Tan saga. There is a time and a place, and Bellamy said it out of place.



Did he say it or are you another making assumptions? :?


I’ve made no assumptions, just said he shouldn’t be saying it.

I have have met him in person, and also had a confrontation with him because my friend took a photo with him (which he was aware of) and he said he would shove my friends phone up his ass if he didn’t delete the picture.

Obviously, he did nothing and Threatened to get his big boy friends to meet us the next day.

So, from my personal experience, I wouldn’t be surprised. I think he’s an absolute wanker but I am not accusing him of anything. Just stating someone in his position shouldn’t.


And quote (JimCP91): "and Bellamy said it out of place"

That (to me and likely most others) is clearly stating that you believe Craig said those words!

Many of us have met him in person and in better circumstances than you clearly did, so your view is clearly tainted by your friends alleged experience and I wonder what was done/said to make Craig react in that way, if he did/said it at all?

Did he agree to the photo initially or was he just (in your words) "aware of" and asked for it to be deleted for any number of reasons that are his prerogative and right?



yes ive seen him be the perfect gent too, and also behave as he did with jim and worse..like atime bomb.
personally I think his number was up when he slaughtered us and our fantastic manager on sky..

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 3:52 pm

Where I work if I was to call somebody a sheep sha*ger I’d be on a discliplinary pending dismissal, I don’t like Bellamy, think he’s a pr*ck in all fairness and if this kid has been targeted and bullied by the little lout then throw the book at him and make sure Bellamy doesn’t work with any football club again.

Imagine your son or daughter being bullied by an adult, you wouldn’t just laugh it off, you’d wanna clout the adult around the lugholes

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 4:13 pm

Like i said from comments on here . Man up and grow a pair. Some people show chanhe their avatar names to Snow flake.

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 4:14 pm

Wolfpac wrote:Where I work if I was to call somebody a sheep sha*ger I’d be on a discliplinary pending dismissal, I don’t like Bellamy, think he’s a pr*ck in all fairness and if this kid has been targeted and bullied by the little lout then throw the book at him and make sure Bellamy doesn’t work with any football club again.

Imagine your son or daughter being bullied by an adult, you wouldn’t just laugh it off, you’d wanna clout the adult around the lugholes



Ill have a word in the morning with my boss and say someone swore at me. Lol people.

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 4:19 pm

BlueMoon1974 wrote:
Wolfpac wrote:Where I work if I was to call somebody a sheep sha*ger I’d be on a discliplinary pending dismissal, I don’t like Bellamy, think he’s a pr*ck in all fairness and if this kid has been targeted and bullied by the little lout then throw the book at him and make sure Bellamy doesn’t work with any football club again.

Imagine your son or daughter being bullied by an adult, you wouldn’t just laugh it off, you’d wanna clout the adult around the lugholes



Ill have a word in the morning with my boss and say someone swore at me. Lol people.


All good having this Neanderthal attitude if you work in a builders yard or similar place of work but if I was to go around effing and jeffing I’d be in the dock with my p45 lol

I will go back to my original point if I had a son of 17 being verbally and mentally abused by some has been I’d have made a full complaint via the necessary channels

Sooner Bellamy is out of our club the better he’s toxic

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 4:24 pm

Our whole society is breaking down because of this boll....... By all means investigate but common sense as well. Banter in the changing will be next. Perhaps Pogba can claim he got bullied and Beckham could cry fowl from boot in the head gate .

Bellamy does come across a tool but........... wow. Snowflakes we are becoming.

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 4:24 pm

Make a joke about someone's gender/sexual orientation/skin color and everyone goes crazy, make a joke about about their nationality and it's 'banter'!

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 4:26 pm

BlueMoon1974 wrote:Like i said from comments on here . Man up and grow a pair. Some people show chanhe their avatar names to Snow flake.



and some should change theirs to REAL men need a golf club.

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 4:31 pm

BlueMoon1974 wrote:Our whole society is breaking down because of this boll....... By all means investigate but common sense as well. Banter in the changing will be next. Perhaps Pogba can claim he got bullied and Beckham could cry fowl from boot in the head gate .

Bellamy does come across a tool but........... wow. Snowflakes we are becoming.



yes he is a tool has proved it throughout his career ....and an academy is more akin doing a sports science degree to being in the army or some 1950s cigar factory...

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 4:39 pm

T1JMO wrote:Make a joke about someone's gender/sexual orientation/skin color and everyone goes crazy, make a joke about about their nationality and it's 'banter'!

Fair point. Is it possible to make a joke about anything any more?

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 4:57 pm

I think we shouldn't boo god save the queen. Perhaps we should start sending out flyers because it offends our English players. Perhaps our English players should complain. Should not be happening in these modern times. Ill contact the club shortly.

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 5:12 pm

bluebirdoct1962 wrote:
T1JMO wrote:Make a joke about someone's gender/sexual orientation/skin color and everyone goes crazy, make a joke about about their nationality and it's 'banter'!

Fair point. Is it possible to make a joke about anything any more?

We live in the post joke era.

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 5:25 pm

Jock wrote:
bluebirdoct1962 wrote:
T1JMO wrote:Make a joke about someone's gender/sexual orientation/skin color and everyone goes crazy, make a joke about about their nationality and it's 'banter'!

Fair point. Is it possible to make a joke about anything any more?

We live in the post joke era.

Gerry Francis regularly called a player a Welsh c*** at spurs. It's the day and age we live in

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 5:27 pm

I think there are a lot of assumptions either way with this, we don't actually know what was said or how he was treating certain players.

I don't agree with the mentality that people in my work say this and say that as if it's excepable or the old it didn't do me any harm.

It all depends who says it to you and why they said it to me. If my boss said it to me I wouldn't be offended but at the same time if I moved jobs and the new boss started calling me this and that and was treating me different to other staff I wouldn't find that an enjoyable working environment knowing if you tell your boss to do one your more than likely going to pay for.

Especially in football if someone like Bellamy took a dislike to someone and you argue back I'd bet you would find it hard to find another club.

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 5:30 pm

Dear English don't bring any more inflatable sheep I get really offended I do.

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 5:33 pm

skiprat wrote:Dear English don't bring any more inflatable sheep I get really offended I do.


Do you think that's the same thing :lol:

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 5:54 pm

T1JMO wrote:Make a joke about someone's gender/sexual orientation/skin color and everyone goes crazy, make a joke about about their nationality and it's 'banter'!



I haven't read anywhere that he called him anything?

Weren't the allegations just that the kid didn't like it because he turned the sound down and said he didn't like Swansea or Bristol ???

Sounds like a little banter gone wrong and it's all be blown out of proportion, we live in a complain and blame compensation culture, and the Government needs to start stamping on it !!!!

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 5:58 pm

bluebirdoct1962 wrote:
T1JMO wrote:Make a joke about someone's gender/sexual orientation/skin color and everyone goes crazy, make a joke about about their nationality and it's 'banter'!

Fair point. Is it possible to make a joke about anything any more?



No, it's not you'll offend some fanny or other !!!

Apologies to any Fanny that may be offended by my rude comments :roll:

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 6:01 pm

BlueMoon1974 wrote:I think we shouldn't boo god save the queen. Perhaps we should start sending out flyers because it offends our English players. Perhaps our English players should complain. Should not be happening in these modern times. Ill contact the club shortly.


Joke as you like, it won't be long before you get kicked out for such offensive behavior :roll:

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 6:02 pm

It depends on the intention not the words. It's not black and white.

Re: If your kid gets called a sheeper shagger in work place

Thu Jan 03, 2019 6:02 pm

BlueMoon1974 wrote:In a workplace, Army environment sports academy system or other would you tell him just to suck it up and man up and show some character . The state of our snow flake society is shocking. Probably best to wait for the full facts to emerge before i get carried away. If we ever go to war god help us. How thankful we should be to our older generations who had far less but at sane time had so much more about them. Backbone and guts in abundance is what im searchine for.

I just hope he doesn't go like Milky Mackay did.


right ok. go and call an indian an 'indian b*stard' or a nigerian a 'nigerian b*stard'. if you work with an english person, go and call them an english b*stard. let us know how you get on.

if we were to have conscription, i think we'd stand a better chance of winning if we weren't shouting xenophobic comments at each other, don't you? clearly you are either a) thick, b) disengenuous or c) bigoted. possibly all 3.

society has moved on for the better, even if you haven't.